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Mon 04/28/08 08:04 PM


Can someone explain her to me. I'm confused.huh
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Is that like # of posts?

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Mon 04/28/08 08:02 PM
Yea 18 just to be on the safe side...really....and that's only if you can stand alot of giggling, but she may give it up more.

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Mon 04/28/08 08:00 PM
Can someone explain her to me. I'm confused.huh

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Mon 04/28/08 07:53 PM


You just started dating someone, and it's clicking for them but not so much for you. Do you...

1. Let em loose right away, so they won't get too attached?

2. Keep dating them a while longer to see if they grow on you...after all, you're both having fun and it's always nice to be adored?

My friend has gone with #2
My choice would be #1
WTF?explode



Unless you're a guy, then just lead her on until you find someone else better that will have sex with you.drinker

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Mon 04/28/08 07:50 PM

You just started dating someone, and it's clicking for them but not so much for you. Do you...

1. Let em loose right away, so they won't get too attached?

2. Keep dating them a while longer to see if they grow on you...after all, you're both having fun and it's always nice to be adored?

My friend has gone with #2
My choice would be #1




#1 because think how the other person would feel if they were the one with the emotions and you didn't feel the connection to them. This just happened to me and I'm crushed, but at least I found out early on.brokenheart

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Mon 04/28/08 07:21 PM
Maybe you have higher standards now which, is a good thing.flowerforyou

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Mon 04/28/08 04:42 PM





You woke up and he was gone? Did you let him sleep over the first time you met him? That could be your problem.

I know, but I wanted to so...what do you do?


Go ahead, but accept the fact that he is not going to want a relationship with you after that.

Wisdom is what I'm lacking eh?

I think everybody learns life's lessons in their own time. If what you are doing keeps failing to work for you, maybe you will try something different.

You're so smart. I need to ask your advice on everything....

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Mon 04/28/08 04:40 PM

This is how the internet thing goes sometimes. I hope you don't let this damage your self esteem or self worth. Sometimes one of the two is "just not into" the other. The fact that he is avoiding contact is probably just avoiding a difficult conversation.



I like people to shoot it to me straight though. I'm not gonna break down and cry. I can accept and honest answer, but not avoidance.

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Mon 04/28/08 04:38 PM

I've been played on here too if its any consolation. I chat here daily. Ask them out and never hear from them again. Its sad some people don't state their true intentions. If your profile says you are looking for someone to date- you date- you do not play silly little childish games. Very wierd.

Childish is an understatement

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Mon 04/28/08 04:34 PM



You woke up and he was gone? Did you let him sleep over the first time you met him? That could be your problem.

I know, but I wanted to so...what do you do?


Go ahead, but accept the fact that he is not going to want a relationship with you after that.

Wisdom is what I'm lacking eh?

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Mon 04/28/08 04:33 PM




it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection.grumble

cheer up my friend...there are good men out theredrinker


**looks to the left** nope none there

**looks to the right** nope none there

**looks up** nope there either

**gets down on hands and knees to listen to the ground like an Indian** oh look there's one behind me.

What?huh

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Mon 04/28/08 04:29 PM

Welcome to datingdrinker

I guess you're right..I'm kinda not used to the whole dating thing.

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Mon 04/28/08 04:28 PM

belle, I wouldn't judge him yet... There could be multiple reasons.. Don't let it get you down... Keep yourself busy and occupy your mind... I hope it all works out for the best for you flowerforyou flowerforyou

True, but EVERY single man in my life has let me down and it's starting to get to me.

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Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM

Maybe he is just a jerk? You are to pretty to be with a jerk.:smile: I say good riddence.

Thanks sweetheart!flowerforyou

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Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM

:heart: He is in love with me nowdevil We are gonna get marrieddevil

You say some crazy **** Mirror!

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Mon 04/28/08 04:26 PM

forget him just happened to me finally found out he deleted my number and every piece of info he had on me

Sorry honey.frown

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Mon 04/28/08 04:25 PM

it has happen to the best of us. The only thing I can say is that he just wanted to get laid( if you slept with him that is) Dont worry about it. life is to short to understand why someone does things. some answer may never come.

I guess I just want to know how people can do that and not feel any emotions? How can the seperate sex and intimacy?

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Mon 04/28/08 04:24 PM


So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice?
I'm sorry this happened to you. My opinion, he is hiding something. He is not fully being honest with you. flowerforyou

I would feel so bad if he was involved...sick

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Mon 04/28/08 04:23 PM

there is two legged dogs on both sides of the fence . had it to happen to me .let him find another tree to bark up !explode youcan do better than that !

Thanks flowerforyou

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Mon 04/28/08 04:23 PM

You woke up and he was gone? Did you let him sleep over the first time you met him? That could be your problem.

I know, but I wanted to so...what do you do?

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