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So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice?
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been there, sorry this has happened.
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Just wait, but I wouldn't hedge my bets in his direction.
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it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interest
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god men are dogs
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he had diarrhea
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Just wait, but I wouldn't hedge my bets in his direction. I know and to think I canceled a date with someone else for this guy. |
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been there, sorry this has happened. Thanks..it makes me think I'm not worthy or something. |
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oh yeah.....and...... never deactivate, again
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I'm very sorry to hear this. I would say move on.
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it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interest Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection. |
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Edited by
itsmetina
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Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM
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ask to meet his bestfriend
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So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice? Sorry but he sounds like he played you....you can give it a couple of more days, but it sounds like a one-niter....sorry about that....you seem really nice...hope it changes for you |
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he had diarrhea Actually yes..he has collitis. Not sure if I spelled that right? |
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god men are dogs Yea, but I still love em'! |
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it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interest Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection. cheer up my friend...there are good men out there |
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So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice? |
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it has happen to the best of us. The only thing I can say is that he just wanted to get laid( if you slept with him that is) Dont worry about it. life is to short to understand why someone does things. some answer may never come.
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oh yeah.....and...... never deactivate, again Why??? |
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I'm very sorry to hear this. I would say move on. Easier said then done...my chest kinda hurts. |
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