I doubt anyone would say no ...

great profile. I believe your mail box will be filled with messages in no time.

yep.

my favorites: NANA, Honey & Clover, Full Metal Panic, FLCL, Death Note, and Girl Who Leapt Through Time.

Sleepy Hollow, Finding Neverland, and Corpse Bride

Pirates of Caribbean is pretty good, too.

wow, that's pretty straight forward ...

dang .. that's BIG NEWS ... congratz

welcome ... oops, I don't smoke

friendly

Thanksss everyone

I just wanna put my opinion on this. I would say Yes and No to that. I think it is healthy for a couple to actually change (or adjust/improve) themselves in some ways that would make them appear more attractive to the other person.

To me, it shows that the couple care and are comfortable enough to actually openly discuss/communicate what each other likes/dislikes/wants/what turns them on/how to make each other more attractive. I think it's necessary because a relationship goes two ways, it's a compromise.

For example, if I like a girl 80% today because of her personality and look. However, if she can get rid of a bad habit of hers, then I might like her much much more. If today she likes me a lot and is willing to change that bad habit because it is actually good for the both of us, then I think she should try to improve herself on that. Also, she might agree that by changing the bad habit, it will improve herself in life, too.

With that said, I do believe there is a limit to how much to change/improve. If it really goes against the other person's views, then of course you shouldn't force them to change. For example, telling someone to get plastic surgery or telling someone to change their personality in a totally opposite way.

In conclusion, I think as long as both people agree that they would change/improve themselves on certain things to make the other person happier/feel more attraction, then they should. Because it shows respect, care, and great communication. After all, a relationship is a compromise and making each other happy.

Wait ... does that even make sense? Hmm ... I don't think I sounded sincere. Sounds like I was just BSing huh?

I mean ... your profile is short, simple, and gets to the main point of who you are, what you are looking for, and the photos are simply wonderful. Plus, you were the first person I messaged on JSH. So, how can it not be great? Now that's more sincere

Sorry Mandy, I'd have to give you a BIG FAT ZERO. Why? Because it has no mention of ME in your profile!!!

Heh, you know I'm kidding. Your profile is as beautiful as your kind and loving heart.

wait .. but if physical wise ...

I think showing off shoulder is very sexy. and gently & softly touching my neck or chest ... HMM ... nice ...

also, light soothing fragrance can be mesmerizing, too.

caring, thoughtful, loving, sweet, and affectionate girl who has compassion towards people and animals turns me ON.

ps: I wish I can change the ON to like 36 point font just to show how ON it is for me

thanks ... I just MIGHT do that

yeah, I don't care much about my b-day either ... just that I thought if a girl likes you, she'd always do something about it. just sad that maybe I'm not so special for her.

uhh .. but I'm not even getting a belated birthday card!!

at least not yet ...

It was my birthday yesterday and "she" didn't say anything to me ... I thought she likes me and now she's driving me crazy ...

Just wanna add a note, if you play TOO HARD to get, you might become hard to connect with and the man might think you're not interested or cannot handle this emotion and move on. It's always a balance. But I think most importantly is just be natural and do what you feel is right.

It's not my personal opinion, it's what I've learned from psychology. And the key here is not "Women who ask men out", the key here is that when a woman asks a man out without the man "spending effort", she will be seen as "Easy" (TO the man). And thus lose value (in THAT man's mind) and lose attraction (TO him).

Basically, you can say ... when you're being too easy, you lose value and attraction. This is human psychology. That's why there's such thing in dating called "Play hard to get".

But of course, You can definitely ask a man out without being too easy. Which will probably end up like you were saying "Assertive, tenacious and maybe aggressive" IF that is what you're showing. But keep in mind ... to THAT man you ask out, in his little mind, he might think you're being easy and thus lose attraction to you.

See, a relationship is not one sided, just because you intend to be assertive, tenacious, and aggressive, doesn't mean it will be conveyed to the man you're asking out.