Hi im gerry and I joined this site ages ago but have not logged on for a long time. met some realy nice people on here ans still keep in touch with them. Only problem is that I am looking for a real relationship with some one from the UK.

The only people that seem to be on here from the UK are looking for a good time but not a relationship, cant work that one out realy because i thought this was a dating site ???.

So here go's, is there any nice woman looking for a guy who likes to be nice to people and by nice I dont mean boring.

some one who is not scared to hold hands in public, and who likes to have fun.

Also some one who is not hung up on money because I am not loaded by anuy means.

If there is any one out there who would like to take a chance on some one like me then get in touch. By the way race,colour or creed dont matter to me at all .

well thats it for now so hope to hear from some one soon.

Be well and stay happy.

Gerry

Hi every one. Been on here for awhile now and have to be honest,I must be doing some thing wrong.

All I want is a woman to share my life with. Be happy with,spend nice days out with and cozy nights in with.

Ok I have a small disability "fibromialgia" that might slow me down some times but hay everybodys got some thing right?.

Ok so what am I doing wrong?. Am I asking too much or do woman realy want to be treated like second class or be put down every day of there lives.

Maybe thats the answer?, be nice but get know where.

I live on my own,have a nice house and a car, and like all sorts of things.
I am an artist at heart but enjoy a wide variety of things except jazz. I do silly things like build my own chopper bikes and weld garden sculptures from old bits of metal.

On the other side I love being abit on the crazy side as well because you need to have some fun every day .

If any one can tell this 43 year old guy who is genuinly nice"not boring£ what he is doing wrong then let me know. Unless you are looking for some one like me then get in touch would love to hear from you.

So start the debate.

what do woman realy want, nasty or nice???????

Hi.

Im gerry from the united kindom. I am looking for a person who lives in the uk some where in the norwich or norfolk area for a real life honest realationship.

I have been single for over 4 years and have lived by myself for that time as well.

I live in a quite area just outside of the main town but not so far out that I cant get to see abit of life now and again.

I dont work any more due to having a small disability that slows me down some time but not enough to stop me from enjoying life.

I like lots of different things ranging from art which is abig part of me right up to building my own chopper bikes.

I like music of all types except Jazz.I also like photography,going out to cinemas,good food,nice restaurants,quiet country pubs,camping and making things out of things other people have thrown out, my friends take the micky out of my and call me a recycling artist which is not to far from the truth maybe. I would love to travel to a different country one day but dont see the point at the moment because there is no one to share the adventure with.

I do smoke but not heavily but would give up for the right person. I enjoy drinking on a social basis but other than that it does not bother me.

I would like to meet some one who has matbe similar interests but also is there own person. I have no trouble with peoples colour creed or religion, and respect people from all back grounds.

I am abit of abig softy though and would like to walk down the street or go for late night walks in the rain just holding hands. Would also like to be able to just curl up with all the cushions on the floor watching a good film in front of the fire with maybe a nice bottle of wine and lots of munchies.

if you like the sound of me then get in touch. I dont take a good picture of myself so do look alot older in them than I actually am.

hope to hear from some one soon.

thanks for reading and stay well and be happy.

gerry

Hi every one. Well set a challenge to all on this site to help me find a woman who lives in the uk and wants a proper relationship with a nice guy. Nice not boring I should say. Guess what had no takers but had some feedback. So if there is any one out there who is single,lives in the uk and would'nt mind going out with a single guy who is quite bright and likes to enjoy life then get in touch. I dont bite,not much any way. hope to hear from you soon.

PS.

if your reading this and know some one who fits the bill then tell them to get in touch.

Thanks and speak to you all again later

Gerry

Hi every one. been on this site for awhile and met some realy nice people who unfortunately live in different countries but never the less are great people who I hope to keep in touch with for many years.

Now my only problem is that I seem to be too nice for any one to want to date. Can any one tell me what I am doing wrong. I am 42,live alone and while I am not rich I live comfortable. I think all people should be treated nice and thats were my problem lies i think.

All I keep seeing is nice good looking ladies who should end up with some one who treats them nice but instead end up with guys who use them as a piece of bling on there arm.

Do woman realy want to be treated like it is the stone age or have I lost the plot. Tell you what I issue a challenge to all on this site.

I would love to date a nice looking woman who likes to be treated with respect. Some one who doe's not care to much about money and who doe's not have any hang ups about walking down the street holding hands. Some one who likes throwing the cushions on the floor and watching a good film with a nice bottle of wine. Some one who does not mind being spontanious and having a laugh over just about any thing.

This is my challenge to all on this site. Only other stipulations are that they must live in the Uk some were around norfolk area.

NOW every one if you are this person or know of some one who sounds like this person or even have a friend that has been treated badly and you want them to meet some one who can show them whats its like to be treated nice, then get them to get in touch.

Get going time starts NOW.

Gerry

PS.

Colour,creed,religion dont make any difference to me at all. But you do have to live in th UK in England...

Hi every one. Firstly let me say hello to all the very genuine people that I have met on here, especialy to a lady in china and a very nice young lady in america who is a great artist"DD". however is it me or are there some people here who send you messages and then maybe say hello once and ask you to keep in touch on the hope that you might actualy click and then just dont even bother to open or check the messages when you do get in touch. To all these people please stop this as it gives people hope that there is some one out there and when you just go missing or dont check messages it can be abit on the soul destroying side and leave you feeling quite used and worthless, so come on those people please think on as some of us do actually have a heart and do just want to find some one that they can love.

gerry

norfolk united kindom. not rich but a very nice guy who does not work but is not a scrounger or a gold digger and lives comfortably and just wants some one to care about and treat nice. is that to much?????

Hi every one. Not been here long but starting to get realy down hearted. I am just a genuine guy who is looking for a genuine lady who wants me for more than a passport. I am realy asking to much.

The only people who say hello live in different countries, and they other people who say hello all seem to need airfare to get here and all seem to have cheques that for some mad reason can only be cashed in the uk.

If your reading this or you know any one in the UK who is single and would be in interested in a 42 year old guy who is very young at heart, likes to have fun and likes to treat people nice, then hey pass my details onto them,

Got to say though I have been single for over 4 years and lived by myself for that time as well because O dont do one night stands or weekend relationships.

so come on people help me out, there has to be some one out there.

Oh ps.

I dont work because I have fibromialgia but I dont let it get me down or rule my life, thought I would mention it as I dont like dropping things on people either..

Speak to some one soon

gerry

Hello every one. Im gerry and I have been single for over 4 years and lived by myself. I am looking for a genuine person who is looking for a real life relationship. I believe in being honest and I know how to be faithfull to one person.

I would love to hear from any one who is single and looking for an actual nice guy who believes in treating people nice, wow sounds realy boring but I can be a great laugh and like to be spontanious to keep life exciting.

So if there is any one out there who thinks are bless give this guy a chance then dont fight the urge get in touch, Colour ,race ,past dont bother me at all as long as you actualy live in the uk and are not looking for a quick fling.

hope to hear from some one soon.

stay well and stay happy.

gerry

by the way sorry for the well dodgy pics lol?????

Hi every one. Only joined last night and have to say spoke to the nicest person that I have met in a long long time. Only trouble is she lives in another country.

Is there any one in the uk who is looking for a genuine guy just looking for love and relationship.

perfect person would be some one who has ben treated badly then I acn show you what its like to be treated nice and with the respect that every person deserves but seems so little of these days.

It does not make me less of a man because I like to look after my partner although it does it seems make me abit strange.

say hello ask any thing you want. I am mostly on about know till late.

hope to hear from some one soon.
AAAAAHHHHHHH sounds desperate....

gerry

Hi every one. New here and have almost given up on finding some one. I have been single for over four years and lived by myself for that time as well. I have only dated once in that time and it was an instant nightnare. I am fun but like to be myself as well. Are there realy any woman out there who just like a nice guy who likes fun but can be serious when needed, a woman who actualy likes to be treated nice and not need to have a man whos knuckles drag on the ground and carry a club in the other hand. Is there any thing wrong with making breakfast in bed for your lady and running a bath for her when she comes home at night. Dont mean to sound wimpy because Im not but c'mon. I live in norfolk but come from liverpool so never get old and flatly refuse too as well. some one give me a chance. You might like being treated nice, I am told its not that bad...send me an email if you want I will always reply.