LOL..I'm not gay either .. ok, maybe you could qualify me as a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

But seriously, from this post its clear that is "code" for "not gay" .. but may be code for "homophobe"???

Hmm, well are you a lesbian? or have a good friend that is lesbian???

Looks like a job for Mick Jagger from the pic!!!!!

ROFL..ok, my turn to interject...and just for fun!!

Lets define "perv"....

It has been my understanding...

"kinky" is when you use a chicken feather...

"perverted" is when you use the WHOLE CHICKEN!


So to call an older guy a "perv" for hitting on a younger woman is just wrong.

I just found out a woman is termed as a "Cougar" if she is an older woman that goes after younger men...WTF??

Women get to be "Cougars" and guys get to be "perverts" ... NICE!!!

And i do not mean anything "bad by what I say. Like you just "pointing out" the obvious.

I can only guess by the "number" you have in your SN you are 20. And I am 42, so no I would not consider going out with you because of the age difference. Unfortunately many men don;t care, because there are women who will go after a guy who is 40 for many reasons. We are usually (and that does NOT mean ALL the time) more mature, more stable in many respects, know how to treat a woman more like a "lady", experience in life and in bed, more into giving than receiving (that does not mean only sex), etc.

It's not like we are "old and wrinkly" at 40, even though at 20 , 40 does seem old .. I still remember thinking the SAME THINGS!

And I have dated younger women, as young as 24 at 40. Nothing wrong with it. But found that the "long term" goals did not fit well. They will want children, and that is a wonderful thing! I love children and have my son. But at this age, I don;t want that 24/7 responsibility again. I want to find that special woman and travel the world, be free to go to Europe on the spur of th moment. Then when I have grandkids or get to see my god-children, I can have a blast with them, spoil them rotten...then send them home!

Life is what we make it. To each thier own. As long as they are not hurting anyone else...LIVE IT!

And what would you do if you had sumthing different?

Be careful what you ask for..you just might wind up getting it ... and then what???

Oh don;t get me wrong..I am NOT saying Suz is a bad girl AT ALL!!!

Just making a simple statement. You put a "lip pic" up like that..then guess what MOST guys are going to THINK??? Hmmmm, I think its easier to figure out what is 2+2????

Again...the things you "draw in" depend on what you put out for them to see.

Again..not saying at all Suz is a bad girl/person, so lets PLEASE keep that clear.

I am just pointing out what is very obvious to at least most of the guy population.

You are partly correct, that was really towards Suz in this specific case.

Her main pic alone would constitute her getting a LOT of sexually explicit e-mails...it just comes with the territory.

Of course, because no you are known to the general posting community and have been here a while. But your picture says a LOT about what kind of attention you are looking for...it comes with the territory. You puts on certain bait to catch certain fish.

Sorry Catchy...the above one was for Suz..not you.

LOL..yeh, its true!

ROFLMAO...Oh give it a BREAK! This reminds me of the woman who gets breast inplants, wears the LOW CUT blouse and then keeps asking, "why does everyone keep staring at my tits!??"

Are you serious!?? Look at you PICTURE alone! And you don't expect to draw "sexual attention"?? YEH RIGHT!!!!

You LOVE the ATTENTION and thats why YOU DO IT! Lets be REAL!

LOL..well most all of us that do not have a significant other I think is looking for an "intimate encounter"!!!

Just many are looking for that special person to do it with and NOT just anyone who comes along.

The males are the WORST in this deptpartment. So many can't even keep it zipped up and will basically bone anything that will let them! But on the good side, they are great one hand typists!

So in looking for a "date" or "relationship, etc..I think we are all looking for the "intimate encounter" in some form. Some of us just happen to have self control and standards.

LOL..you mean women don;t find that "classy and charming"???

(note the HEAVY sarcastic tone)

I LOVE THAT JOKE! Have not heard it in years!

ROFLMAO..HEY FOLKS! the CODE is NOT about being LESBIAN!!! If you READ the ORIGINAL post, I said its kinda like how the lesbians have a "code" to see if the other woman is lesbian...they ask "are you family".

So the "Lip Pic" code is NOT about lesbians!

Widower,

That's too cool! We are almost neighbors! I go up to Morongo and play some of the poker tournys from time to time. You ever go up to that casino??

Yeh i have heard that too!


JUST KIDDING!!!! But could NOT resist that one!

U bet it does. Chapstick is the best of the best

Lets highlight "under ANY circumstances".....

Then lets select "Tomorrows Iraq" for $800 Alex.

"It glows in the dark"...

DING! "What is Iraq after cplichristmd gets the nuke code?"