If those were my only choices I would remain single.

thank you

I think it's odd you picked looks versus money. Both of which are non important in the grand scheme of things we call life. Best of luck to you.

<--- is a lovely lady lol

hello and welcome. Some great people here.

what happened to hard working, attractive and great personality? WHy do we have to be lacking in something just because we are single? I work hard, I'm fun as can be to be around, I'm at least not ugly, and single. Not sure what you're what you're getting at?

bunch of crap. I put my thoughts out there all the time to attract. All I get is crap.

I think some people frown about your tattoos bc it's still fairly , on taboo to get them in such obviously open spots, such as your hand or on your face for example, things like that. I say just keep looking for the one that sees your tats and smiles :)

Men want an "independent" woman who also cooks, cleans, watches the kids, is already for love when he is. Oh, she can have a job too.

That's not my attitude at all. Still haven't met him though. lol Was really hoping you were going to have the answer to this for me

some times... my dreams literally scare me half to death

Thank you

The only saftey issue is that the garage is getting fairly full and some of it is starting to become a tripping hazard. The house is completely livable though, no bugs, rodents, no mold, everything works properly, etc. But it's a constant thing to keep it that way since there is stuff just kinda everywhere.

Thank you everyone for your ideas and support on this. We have been working on the issue and having improved some. Slightly, but certainly a step forward. I was able to get her to get rid of 10 garbage bags full of clothes and linen, yes, 10 just out of her closet. So now my dad was able to move his clothes that have been in the spare bedroom closet, back to his own bedroom with her. It's been SOOOO long since they have been able to share a closet. She went into panic at first, thinking OMG I have nothing to wear. But I reminded her in actuality, she has MORE to wear than before, because she can access it all.

supposed to say "help with a HOARDER" lol not "hoader"

I literally am always shuffling stuff from one spot to another, every day. Newpapers, mail, ball of string, tools, whatever. Just "stuff". There's no where to put it away because everything else is full.

I'm just so frustrated with my parents, my mother especially. She keeps EVERYTHING. The stuff doesn't get used, enjoyed, nothing. Just stored in boxes, closets, shelves, tables, stacked on top of other stuff everywhere. Nothing is done with this stuff except just being kept. I'm tired of it being every one else's problem in this family except the one that's causing the problem. Every closet, every cupboard, every flat surface, every inch of space in the garage surrounding where you park the car, anywhere you can put something is full. It drives in CRAZY. They get upset with me and then I get upset with them and well... it's just not working. And to top it off, she just keeps buying... just "in case". She refuses to admit she's a hoarder. The only reason her house isn't absolutly full and disgusting is because we constantly and are cleaning it. I just don't know how to help them. It's not nearly as bad as see you on those "hoarders" show. Like the house is livable, it's not all just garbage she's keeping. It's literally just "stuff". But eventually, if you can't get it removed and you just keep adding, it's bound to be a hoarders episode.

love it!! congrats