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Tue 09/06/11 04:47 PM
I don't want to hurt his feelings but...I just don't see how he will ever be prodded enough to come to me...

I guess I could just talk to him less until he gets the clue.

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Tue 09/06/11 04:05 PM
the thing is all the advice is good... I have tried to leave the relationship before but he tugs on the heart strings and it drags on again.

I love him in many ways...but he's not coming to the same point I am in the relationship.

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Tue 09/06/11 03:10 PM
I have been in a long distance relationship but now I think it should end. because he I doubt is coming. and because of that i don't think I can hold on much longer...

how do you say good bye to someone like that?

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Tue 09/06/11 05:00 AM
I have heard of paampered chef but never actually seen a cathalog...

but it's good to know I can be more positive.

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Mon 09/05/11 10:16 PM
thanks for the advice...

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Mon 09/05/11 10:16 PM
oh well I have always been complimented by guys... I just dont' know how to say nicely I am not interested in a quick lay... but I manage and then I dont' get no one for a long time...
hmmm

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Mon 09/05/11 10:13 PM
word of warning if an older man wants a younger girl and there is lets say 38 years difference she needs to know if it's love or just use and abuse the older man wants...

it happen to me it can happen to you...


Be careful with anyone you meet and marry...

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Mon 09/05/11 10:05 PM
I was married to somone that was significantly older than me he was awful.

so I would say that each person and their situation is different. I would still date or marry an older man as long as he was not too old.


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Mon 09/05/11 09:34 PM
I suppose not...

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Mon 09/05/11 09:32 PM
Appearance can be misleading, I don't think I know how to put this politely but I don't think I am attracting the right type of guy not only am "big boned" or large framed for a petite sized woman I am seriously overweight... but want to slim down to my pre preganncy weight... with that said I dont' know what to do as far as attractiing someone that will love me for me despite my problems and all.

any help that is realistic would be nice?

Suggestions taken with thought before action...

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Mon 09/05/11 09:28 PM
I have been in a relationship with someone and they keep asking for money... I have not told them I am letting them go... Another topic for a different day...

I just want to nip it in the bud this go around....

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Mon 09/05/11 09:18 PM
okay, I like your short story, very to the point.

I got cha I can't pleae everyone, just have to please myself.

thanks for thea advice....

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Mon 09/05/11 09:00 PM
sense this is a message board. I cannot in real life make an omelette, my crambled eggs stick to the pan, and my fried eggs the yokes break...

lol

Seriously what do you mean by that expression?


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Mon 09/05/11 07:53 PM
okay so I want a man that is not only attractive to me, but realistic about how to do things... I am tired of waiting...
so... what are you thinking is a good way to put that on the profile without being rude?

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Mon 09/05/11 07:49 PM
y'all are funny... I am trying to say I don't want a prostitute for a boyfriend... you know the type of man that just asks for money instead of work for it...

I also don't want to come as a b*tch if you get my drift.
lol

I know what I want but I don't want to hurt feelings in the process.

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Mon 09/05/11 07:34 PM
I am not sure what to say... for some reason men think I am their sucker so that they can ask me for money. I am not interested in keeping a man up.

I want a man for serious relationship that could lead to marriage and children. I will be 30 soon and my clock is ticking about getting into a serious relationship.

Do I come across to harsh in my profile?
thanks for the advice, tips and info ahead of time...

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Sun 06/12/11 05:06 PM
hi,
I feel I am too old for games and just witnessed my best friend's wedding today. She is so happy and in love and now I feel. Its time for a serious relationship I have been divorced for over a year now.

I want to find the one who can love me for me and for my child someone he can look up to, a role model step dad.

I know there are men out there but I dont' want to wait to find him.