Thought the website would be more kinda "sleazy" but I realize it's all very proper and respectable. I suppose I'm the odd one out and so is my profile.

Well let me seize the moment to greet and salute all the nice, friendly, witty, mischievous, naughty more or less beautiful ladies out there.

Hi to all the boys out there too. If you're in a similar situation get in touch, we could give each other advice and share some war stories.

Peace and love.
This world could use a little more of these lately.
Thanks

Hmm.. a friendship with benefits, suggestions, a good time, friends, people to talk to about our personal lives, someone to help me figure out the different vision men and women have about sex and relations, ideas for spicing up an almost sexless marriage, ways to disinhibit a wife, a lover

Amen to that!

Unfortunately some marriages are made of great sex and bad relations others of a great partnerships and harmony but little or no sex since (or at least according to one of the players). Personal sex drive can be very different.
Wery few lucky ones can have both.
The sex part can start going seriously south after a while and one or both can totally lose interest in each other sexually but still form a great team for the kids and running the family.
That's when you find yourself trapped with no real alternative (especially if you have already been through a divorce).
You would have to decide if risking your kids, your house and a good relation is more important than the possibility of having good sex.
I personally believe it is not.
My ex was amazing in bed but was terrible for all the rest.
Life isn't simple I guess.