when the lady's learn, hell the guy's to for that matter, stop trying to put everyone in a certain steriotypical catagory. some people u can i guess, but guy's like me, u just can't label. some of us are a little older, but not either. i'm 38 &still feel like i'm 27. also not to toot my own horn, but aint never had anything but compliments, & anyone w/ half a brain knows when its good or bulls**t. so all i can say is some of u ladies just havn't happened across the right older guy's yet, like myself ;). damn did i just refer to myself as older? (that sucks!) important thing is "ur only as old as u feel", & i still feel pretty damn good!(cuz i am)