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Sun 11/16/08 10:45 AM

I don't know you & I am just going by what you posted. You seemed to be surprised at the hostility here,like it was something new.


No...I've been on here for almost a year. Lately the hostility has been a bit out of hand. Among the new minglers and the old. Maybe I just wasn't paying as close attn as I should have been!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:43 AM
I am most definitely rough around the edges! lol I will get down and dirty arm wrestling with the boys and the next day will be sharp and ready to attend a formal event! Cheers to you!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:39 AM
Welcome and have fun! Post in the forums often and get yourself noticed! You will make tons of friends that way! Don't get discouraged if it takes awhile to get established!!!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:37 AM



It's been going on for awhile Sweety...but if it is commented on, all we hear is how we are prudes and can't take a joke...I still believe that people can be humorous without hurting someone or bashing someone....wish they would try it...not only would they have a ton of friends....but we could actually have fun ALL the time on here


I've just been seeing it a tad more lately and it's bothering me. Maybe because I am paying a little more attention than usual. But I feel bad when my friends are singled out and bashed. I'm a take no chit kinda girl and I refuse to stand by and watch it without sticking up for them.


It's been going on for a long time, but it seems you didn't notice it until your friends were on the recieving end.


Actually, I've made friends with people for defending them when I didn't even know who they were. You were wrong on that one!

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Sun 11/16/08 10:34 AM



It's been going on for awhile Sweety...but if it is commented on, all we hear is how we are prudes and can't take a joke...I still believe that people can be humorous without hurting someone or bashing someone....wish they would try it...not only would they have a ton of friends....but we could actually have fun ALL the time on here


I've just been seeing it a tad more lately and it's bothering me. Maybe because I am paying a little more attention than usual. But I feel bad when my friends are singled out and bashed. I'm a take no chit kinda girl and I refuse to stand by and watch it without sticking up for them.
There you go...we all need to keep our feet planted and stand against it, I try but can't be on 24/7....I know how you feel and I hate it to....just remember that as you defend your friends....protect yourselfflowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers


Yeah, I know! Because it's hard to defend without bashing yourself...which is against the ruleslaugh laugh

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Sun 11/16/08 10:31 AM

My friends are binded together by leather straps, whether they like it or not. My friends are blood, right or wrong I have their back at all times. Real friendship is blood deep.



For you, I'd bleed myself dry!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:28 AM
I love it when a man has the ability to make me swoon like a school girl! hehe I'm always blushing and giggling and feeling like I am one in a million. It is nice to be appreciated and adored. I give that to the one I am with and love when it is returned! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Mwah, Mwah, Mwah, to my cutie!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:24 AM


any progress from any mutaul matches that you've picked? or from ones who have picked you, or are they just a myth?



For some they work but not if each waits for the other to e-mail them then of course it does not work.bigsmile

Have I met anyone off of mutual matches noooooooooonoway


Tell me about it! I had a mutual match with someone. Requested a friendship and got an email the next day saying that I never emailed him. So he was deleting me, lol. Sorry but if he wanted to talk, he should have initiated contact. People are silly sometimes!!!

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Sun 11/16/08 10:12 AM

It's been going on for awhile Sweety...but if it is commented on, all we hear is how we are prudes and can't take a joke...I still believe that people can be humorous without hurting someone or bashing someone....wish they would try it...not only would they have a ton of friends....but we could actually have fun ALL the time on here


I've just been seeing it a tad more lately and it's bothering me. Maybe because I am paying a little more attention than usual. But I feel bad when my friends are singled out and bashed. I'm a take no chit kinda girl and I refuse to stand by and watch it without sticking up for them.

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Sun 11/16/08 10:09 AM
I met Fear through mutual match! So we are a success story! Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:06 AM

offtopic Just a friendly reminder please refer to the Topic in hand. Please read the forums rules there will be no attacking other members for their opinion.

Nor does it matter how many times the Topic has been asked in the past. For not all new members are aware of what has and has not been asked.

If you do not have anything to add to the Topic then please move on. At no time are any Topics off limits to anyone but if your only reason is to attack someone then at times it is best to move on and leave the thread.

Thank You
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Kristi


Thanks TxsGal!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:05 AM
I need to rant for a bit! It is one thing to tease someone in a forum. With good intent. Ya know, give someone grief in a joking manner! I think that is fine. All part of being on Mingle and I love it. What is becoming apparent is that not everyone here is being kind. They are nitpicking and tearing others apart for stupid reasons. Let's lighten up people and have fun! Please, I am begging you. It is becoming annoying having to back others all the time for being attacked! Get a life!

Okay...rant over!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 10:01 AM
We need to stop giving everyone so much grief! Ever heard the saying, if you don't have anything nice to say??? These comments are off topic! She asked a question and wants responses to that specific question! Not to be chastised for the question in and of itself! Move on, if you don't have positive feedback to the question asked. This isn't a bashing contest!flowerforyou JMO

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Sun 11/16/08 09:57 AM

fake ass people are around every corner, people who act sweet, gentle and nice, then stab you in the back the second you start to trust them. they dont care who they hurt, just as long as they get what they want. they think that nothing will ever hit them the way they have hit people. but guess what???????????



there are real men and women standing there ready to bust you in everything fake ass move you try to pull. im sick of the "nice guys" who act sweet and innocent until they completely blindside someone just as sweet and nice as they can be. those sweet people may not have a vengeful bone in their body, but they have friends who are a little diffrent than they are. they have friends who will do anything to protect their friends who wont do the things we do. true friends who no matter what stick by them through thick and thin, rain or shine, flood or famine.


and we do see you out there.



end of my rant for the day


You tell em thumper! I feel ya! I stick up for my friends to the core! Some people deserve to get shot down for being mean! And soo very true that behind the words there is a real person, with real feelings!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 09:55 AM





{{{Buffry}}}

{{{merle}}}

{{{{Fear}}}} and whoever I missed good morning to all my bad azz chicas!!!!


Mornin Missy love! How ya been?flowerforyou


Hey sweetheart!!!!

Im doing good... thankin gawd its Sunday .. dont have alot to do.. just gonna sit and relax and plot the next badazz thing to do!!! LOl

How bout you ?? How are ya?


You are one lucky azz bad azz!lol I have tons to do today! Blast me for procrastinating yesterday, lol! I am doing great! Started a new job a few weeks ago! And am seeing an incredible man that never ceases to amaze me! Here's to my sweetheart Fear!flowerforyou Edgy to the core!love


Well hunny if I were any where close to ya Id come help.. always easier anda alot more fun to do house work and chores with a friend..

Congrats on your sweet man!!!!


This is soo true and thank you! Chores are ever soo much more fun with a friend to hang out with! Thanks, for the congrats! I'm happier than I've been in quite some time! He rocks my freakin world!

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Sun 11/16/08 09:51 AM



{{{Buffry}}}

{{{merle}}}

{{{{Fear}}}} and whoever I missed good morning to all my bad azz chicas!!!!


Mornin Missy love! How ya been?flowerforyou


Hey sweetheart!!!!

Im doing good... thankin gawd its Sunday .. dont have alot to do.. just gonna sit and relax and plot the next badazz thing to do!!! LOl

How bout you ?? How are ya?


You are one lucky azz bad azz!lol I have tons to do today! Blast me for procrastinating yesterday, lol! I am doing great! Started a new job a few weeks ago! And am seeing an incredible man that never ceases to amaze me! Here's to my sweetheart Fear!flowerforyou Edgy to the core!love

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Sun 11/16/08 09:48 AM
Very nice!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 09:44 AM

I swear I think I'm slow as molasses! noway I saw how you and Fear had been interacting on here lately, but I never put two and two together until this thread and then I thought maybe I was reading to much into it. Then I saw a comment on another thread that's when I figured it all out. slaphead Yes, I know, I should have rode the short bus! tongue2

I'm so happy for you two and hope the happiness last forever! drinker drinker drinker


Awe too sweet hon! You are not slow!lol A lot of people flirt on here. We are actually dating in real life though, hehe! Thank you for your good wishes!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 09:30 AM
Okay...off to start my fun filled day of house work now! I'll pop in throughout the day though!

Mwah, Mwah, Mwah!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 09:27 AM





Can anyone look in the database and find out how many times this question has been asked, please?

if you dont like it get out of the forum here


agree! if you don't like the thread, don't bother posting in it!


thank you onemoretimearound


yvw, I'm sorry that there has to be "one, or two, or three" in every crowd!


I don't understand people like that either. This may be an issue for more than one person. So what if it has been asked. Maybe they want a different perspective!!!