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Wed 04/16/08 09:38 AM
Highlander

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Wed 04/16/08 09:37 AM
allergies

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Wed 04/16/08 09:34 AM
morning...

long night- we went to my work to pick up Stephen's truck and the police chief was busy so he had left 3 REALLY great tickets to the cardinal's game- we went and when the kissing camera guy came around we kissed and were on the jumbo tron.... wooohooo- our roommate got a picture of it-

pretty cool night...loved the new Busch stadium...

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Tue 04/15/08 01:06 PM
on a bed of roses

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Tue 04/15/08 11:02 AM
innocent.....

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Tue 04/15/08 11:00 AM
seen the notebook like 18 times.....

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Tue 04/15/08 10:58 AM
story

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Tue 04/15/08 10:20 AM
Granny

Dave Matthews

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Tue 04/15/08 08:40 AM


Yesterday, Today & Tomorrow



There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

One of these days is YESTERDAY with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. YESTERDAY has passed forever beyone our control.

All the money in the world cannot bring back YESTERDAY, We cannot undo a single act we performed; we cannot erase a single word we said. YESTERDAY is gone.

The other day we should not worry about is TOMORROW with its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and poor performance. TOMORROW is also beyond our immediate control.

TOMORROW'S sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds - but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in TOMORROW, for it is as yet unborn.

This leaves only one day - TODAY. Any man can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities - YESTERDAY and TOMORROW that we break down

It is not the experience of TODAY that drives men mad - it is remorse or bitterness for something which happened YESTERDAY and the dread of what TOMORROW may bring.

Let Us, Therefore, Live But One Day At A Time

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Tue 04/15/08 06:41 AM

seem like i could write a book on this i lost my friend of 18yrs 2weeks ago her husband shot her in front of me and then kill himself she was 3 month pregant i had blood all over me he could have easily took my life too as i sit there and screamed and screamed noone could hear me it was a country and it was like a bad dream then my daddy passed away the next day thought i was going to looose my mind but God know best



I pray that you have strength to get through this and I am so sorry for your loss's and what you have seen - my heart goes out to you-

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Mon 04/14/08 05:19 AM
the pretender



Jack Johnson




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Mon 04/14/08 04:54 AM


One forgives to the degree that one loves.
--La Rochefoucauld

We all get hurt by other people sometimes. When this happens, we have choices. We can get angry and stay that way. We can act like it didn't hurt and try to forget it. We can act like a sad sack and hold a grudge. Or we can forgive.

We first have to think about how someone hurt us. It often helps to talk to the person, to tell the person that he or she hurt us. We then tell the person what we'd like from him or her to help set our relationship straight. Then we let go.

This is what forgiveness is: (1) loving ourselves enough to stand up for ourselves, (2) loving others enough to point out their behavior, and (3) letting go.

Prayer for the Day
Higher Power, help me lovingly forgive those who have hurt me.

Action for the Day
I will list five persons who have hurt me. Have I forgiven them?

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Sat 04/12/08 12:34 PM
damn it's cold in St. Louis today

I broke out the damn parka today.....

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Sat 04/12/08 11:28 AM


morning...

kinda crabby this morning- is yahoooo IM down? I wanted to ask Robin how to quote someone...and yeah things are looking up for us now we are just in a panic finding a place to live by May 1st that will go week to week til he gets enough pay for deposits and rent-

mmmmm blueberry muffins -




why thank you....
Hey (((Michelle))) :heart: flowerforyou

To quote...go to the post you want to quote, click on 'Quote' on the bottom of that post and a new reply window will open with the quote in it.... ta-da!! :smile:

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Sat 04/12/08 08:04 AM
morning...

kinda crabby this morning- is yahoooo IM down? I wanted to ask Robin how to quote someone...and yeah things are looking up for us now we are just in a panic finding a place to live by May 1st that will go week to week til he gets enough pay for deposits and rent-

mmmmm blueberry muffins -


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Sat 04/12/08 07:55 AM
damn I am stressed again......frown

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Sat 04/12/08 07:54 AM
Today's thought from Hazelden is:

Whenever I meet someone new, male or female, I remember my "ideal relationship" list -- my list for a partner also represents most of the things I would like in my friendships. When I'm deciding whether I want someone to be my friend, I think of the things on my list that are most important to me, and where I'm willing to compromise.

"Respects my boundaries" should be at the top of my list for any relationship, and when I meet someone new, I pay attention to the signals that show me if they have this quality. I may set boundaries as simple as, "Please don't call after eight o'clock" or, "I can't see you tomorrow because I have other plans" or, "I don't feel comfortable inviting you over yet."

If these simple boundaries are ignored, I will let the relationship go, knowing that once someone ignores simple boundaries, they will most likely ignore the more important ones. Better to get out now than to repeat past mistakes.

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Wed 04/09/08 08:00 AM
why hello... sorry I have not been here- been a busy week-
we went hiking Sunday to a really cool place called Elephant Rocks and bowling on Monday and Stephen landed the job we needed happy and I have interviewed for a new job.... so yeah, things are really good but busy...


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Tue 04/08/08 01:54 PM


Goodwill

Have you ever envied someone else's good fortune? Consider the friend who calls with a different ring to her voice. Instead of sharing her troubles and woes, she proceeds to tell you good news. Something exciting, financially beneficial, glamorous, wonderful beyond belief has happened in her life. It's not a fantasy. It's one of those rare moments when a dream has come true.

"That's wonderful," you may say, meaning every word. At first.

"Why her?" You may later think. "What about me? When am I going to get a break?" As hard as we may try not to feel that way, a little jealousy, envy, and self-pity replace the joy we felt for our friend.

Most of us want other people to be successful and happy. We really do. That's not the problem. The problem comes when we think they're going to be happier or better than we are.

Sometimes we know when we're envying and resenting others. Other times it's a subtle undercurrent that we're not aware of, but it invades our lives. It may only be a slight feeling of smugness when we hear that something unfortunate has happened to someone we perceive as being more fortunate than we are.

Goodwill isn't just the name of a secondhand store or a phrase used in songs during the holiday season

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Sat 04/05/08 07:39 PM
OMG Dave was not here today either MAN

don't we have a little stoner smoker guy on here