After being Atheist what did it take for you to come to know Jesus? See I ask this because my children were raised in a Christian home, but now that one of them is an adult years ago he started questioning his faith, about a year ago and after talking to a Professor at the college he was going to and who is Atheist he proclaimed himself to be Atheist. He continues to listen to Christian radio and says it's because he likes the positive message it offers. I believe it's still there but still worry for his soul.

Not don't need a "woman cave" just a queit place to retreat to when the stress get's high and that place is usually my bedroom with a tv in it or a good book.

She didn't say ALL men get them, she said men can get them as well which is true, my boys have them ages 20,23 because they grew so tall so fast 20 yr old is 6'3 older one is 6'7. As for the cocoa butter, it's a myth and a ploy for companies to make money, I don't know anyone it's worked for.

I think a mature man will realize that any woman just about and lots and lots of women have had children will invitably have stretch marks...sorry but there's not a lot that can be done about it. Anyone who's had kids or has gained and lost a lot of weight will also more likely have them.

Sweetestgrl, you keep mentioning if both people are mature, one thing I want to point out is maturity does not mean necessarily age. I've known many in their 40's and above that are NOT mature, and then I've known many in their 20's and 30's that are very mature. I am a 43 year old woman and I've found that the older i've gotten the more comfortable in my own skin i've become, meaning with knowing what I want, being ok with being alone you know, not stressing out if I don't have a guy next to me at night, but you also bring withit a lot of simple life experiences such as knowing what screwups not to repeat in a new relationship, or looking for things that are a warning sign before you decide to continue seeing that person and sticking with your gut on that, and that can only come with life experience. You know, it's often the things you found funny or cute when you first started dating that usually end up being the things that irritate you the most later on.