I like to know what it was about my profile that caught his attention. I don't like things like "hey baby you're hot" or "hit me up". So annoying! And, if I know they didn't read my profile I just delete. A message with no picture is also a big no, no (in my opinion). Good luck!

Houston Texas checking in!

Hi there!

Bulldog, you get others to talk to women on your behalf? What if they steal her away? That's a big mistake. Don't ever be too shy not to approach someone you're interested in. Unless they have made it clear they're not interested. (Which, in my case would be guys young enough to be my kids!)

Thanks to all of you for the nice compliments. I really am just an average girl from Texas looking for friends. I'm not looking for a sex buddy and I don't plan to get married anytime soon. I'm just wanting someone to hang out with and, if there is a mutual attraction then who knows? But, I don't want a teenager pretending he knows what to do with me if he did have me! Please! Yes, I agree that there are some mature young men out there. But, still, my preference is someone my age or a little older.

Thank you all!!!

ok, now I'm getting friend requests from young guys who have nude pictures as their profile pictures! Wth? Yes, I did report you! Please don't do that to me!

Yes, today I am officially 42 yrs old. I'm a single hispanic female looking for friends in Houston, Tx.

@soufiehere - who is Txsgal?

Thank you both!

@ Markc48 Maybe they weren't as young as they said they were. Or, maybe they just didn't want to give it up to you. Cuz I have to say that, for me, your language is a huge turnoff!!!

Totage, thanks for the compliment. And, you're right. . .it's not just a number. People say that to justify being with someone much younger.

Crazyed, no, age is not just a number. If that were true we wouldn't have laws against child molesters. Anyway, I can't see having anything in common with a twenty something year old. Even anyone younger than 38 (for me) is too young. But, that's just me.

Rocki, they are perverts! Be careful. Yes, I wish I could restrict them from viewing but anyone can check your profile and even if you filter them out they can still send you a "mail invite". So annoying to have to go through and decline them all. But, because they're kids or, like you said, they're too old. I mean I know I'm not too young but I do want someone who can keep up with me. Lol. Good luck to you!

You're too sweet! I just want to meet people my own age. Not kids. Seriously, what would I have in common with kids?

Can someone please tell me why I continue to get requests from very young guys?!! I KNOW I don't so young and I even put my age out there! I'm 41 yrs old and turn 42 on Mother's Day.

I'm new to this site and I'm hoping to meet local people to go out with. I'm originally from Corpus Christi and I have plenty of friends there but I want to meet people locally that I can call up on the weekend or on a night my son goes out with his friends.

I was married for 13 yrs but now divorced and have been for 4 yrs now. I'm ready to have some fun in Houston and not have to drive for hours to meet up with friends.

I don't go out with married men or with guys young enough to be my son. I'm so tired of getting requests from such young guys!!!