I'll keep you and your sister in my prayers!

I wouldn't consider "cam-to-cam activity" just "emotional cheating". If they do anything sexual, considering there are REAL PEOPLE involved, I would definitely consider it cheating.

Everybody has problems being busy and finding time to spend together - there are better ways to deal with it though if you're not a DOG!!! (like open your mouth and TALK and plan better the little bit of time you do have together).

On the other hand, if nothing sexual is involved and the people are only friends, I wouldn't consider it cheating as long as it was agreed between the girlfriend and boyfriend that it was ok.

Speaking for myself,

I don't have a picture posted because I get way too many e-mails when I do! I like not posting one so I can get genuine people who aren't JUST operating on hormones to respond to my adds. It's a good way to find out what someone's made of and not waste your time with people who aren't looking for the same things...