well thank you. that's good advice. i will pay more attention to the way they talk to me from now on. that's very good advice. and i've always said (sometimes in my profile also) that i'm just looking for my best friend with the icing on the cake ;)

nah, you're not.
always remember that girls are more attracted to a guy with a positive and confident attitude.

haha there ya go!
it all evens out huh. hahaha

me too!

Have you found the right guy for you?
I have definitely already learned how to treat each person as an individual, but I learned that back when I was like ten.

Maybe that IS the problem, though. So many people have been through so many screwed up things that they just aren't willing to see things anew.
My baggage has been left in the past. I'm divorced for many years, been through other long lasting relationships and STILL consider each person an individual.

Sigh. I just wish there weren't so many screwed up ones.

I guess I'll just have to start saying yes to more dates ;)

wes, thank you for the compliments. any advice on how to make the swamp a little less wet and muddy along the way?
link, don't think that way!!

ricol, yes it is a two way street. i'm not denying that there are girls out there that are screwed up also. it's just mean.
unfortunately, that doesn't get me any closer to learning how to pick the right guy. =(
i can tell you, though, that i very much take other people's feelings in to consideration. if it hurts me, it probably hurts other people as well. i'm a pretty strong girl.

i just want to find the right guy.
i'm asking for tips on how to find the right ones at least to choose from. does that make sense?

you will definitely get dates if that's what you want. you just have to take the initiative and ask. but speaking for all the girls on here, please be honest and upfront with whom you date. if you don't want to settle down, then be upfront about it. that's the best advice. completely be yourself and don't be too shy. just be honest! we appreciate it.

Apparently I need help weeding through the losers to get to the real people. I've met and dated a couple people from this site. Some have been really nice to get to know and are still friends. Others not so much.
Fortunately for me, I'm not easy. Otherwise, I'd have been played a lot and all used up by how many people just want to get in my pants.
Well the most recent idiot I talked to kept me on the computer for a week planning on meeting him (was supposed to meet him today actually). What can I say? I was intrigued. He seemed like a great guy, was cute, we had a lot in common. He even worked masonry (which was my last construction field). We made all these plans and I was expecting him today and I even talked to him before I went to bed last night and then I get up this morning and find his email. I'm so sorry, I'm not going to be able to make it. It's not you, it's me. YADAYADAYADA!!! I'm so sick of it!

I've tried putting different things in my profile. Different pictures, partying, with family, with friends, nice, not so nice and I've mixed up the things I say in my profile. All true and me, but just worded differently. I just don't get it.

So on that note..

Can anyone tell me how to find the REAL men?

Thanks.
Tracey

Fuel - Hemorrhage

that's a good one

"a baby is born with a need for love, and never outgrows it." - Frank A. Clark

I'm a week old, sharo.
So far I've made some nice friends in here.
I think you'll like it.
Welcome.

Oh and PS... the courts do NOT always favor the women. Child support. I don't get any for my boys because "they can't serve him properly." He's ten grand in the hole folks. Now I pay for my daughter and if I get one week behind, I'm in court threatening to have my driver's license taken away and thrown in jail. So that's not true at all...

I WISH my boys' dad would fight for them. It kills me that he hasn't seen them in eight years. It's good for you to stand up for your kids, but are you thinking about your KIDS? Always put them first. My daughter lives with dad. She's in a better situation there. She's got epilepsy and anything stressful sets off her seizures. My two boys live with me. My boys are pretty stressful at times. Great kids, just typical boys. I'd give ANYTHING to have my daughter with me full time, but as a stand up mom, I'm thinking of HER first. Every situation is different. Being on both sides... daughter away with HER dad and boys' dad not having anything to do with them for eight years. It's easy for me to see both sides. Only advice I could give is make sure you put the kids first. If you're not there for them, who's gonna be?

what a day. i demolished a house today and then had to clean up the mess.
i can almost not move a muscle in my body today.

i think a beer might help.
bottoms up.

Just thought I'd pass along this information.
If it was my child, I'd want someone to do it for me.

Missing From: 120 SOUTHERN TRACE, CINCINNATI, OH
Missing Date: 10/26/2007 12:00 AM


Contact: Ohio State Police
1-877-262-3764


Circumstances: CHILD TAKEN BY GRANDMOTHER WHO SUFFERS FROM BIPOLAR DISORDER AND IS OFF HER MEDICATION.



Missing ChildName: KYLIE GOODMAN
Hair Color: BLACK Eye Color: BLUE
Skin Color: WHITE Age: 22days
Weight: 7LBS
Gender: Female




SuspectName: VIRGINIA GOODMAN
Hair Color: BROWN Eye Color: HAZEL
Skin Color: WHITE Age: 35
Height: 5'4 Weight: 125LBS
Gender: Female

Name: RICKY ABRAMS
Hair Color: BROWN Eye Color: BLUE
Skin Color: WHITE Age: 32
Height: 5'6 Weight: 145LBS
Gender: Male


Vehicle Information
Make: CHRYSLER Model: UNKNOWN MODEL SEDAN
License State: OH License Text: EEM9587

what's funny is that they do NOT outgrow it.
i now have one that is 14. and if he saw this post, he would DEFINITELY try the brake fluid and clorox. so i'm hiding it

well you certainly have the right idea.
but i don't understand why 99% of Americans agree with you yet nothing gets done.

thanks for the warm welcome

i knew you guys were cool!

and the ladies can't email you. you have your settings set to only accept from men. i tried.

i've run across people like this in the past with online dating sites. this is the exact reason why i'm weary of the whole online thing.

block him.