I just love the fact that a lot of energy went into this topic. And there was a good topic about What your dream job would be, and 5 people responded.

Not being PC = being mean, because you aren't sparing some poor saps feelings. Being PC = Being mean, but in a nice way.

Well again, you simply must have been the one being "teased" thier whole life.

I'm only being "direct" because I don't believe in "mincing" words.

You were "teased" because of your personality traits. You are seen by most as the "whimpy whiney" type and an easy mark. You are considered a "weak" one in the herd. And it is correct, that most that teased you were "bullies" and have great "insecirities" of thier own.

And here you cry out about "what if someone was on thier last rope" etc, etc. Again, just being REALISTIC..you can't save the WORLD!

If someone was "reaching out", then why would they not just go get counseling or some form of help in person, than to go to a bunch of stranger on an internet sight????

God gave us ALL brains...try USING THEM! Again, not flmae or anger..just FACT, face it, deal with it, makes life a lot easier to get through.

If there were no negative people in the world, just think about how happy and joyous the whole world would be. Damnit, I will NOT let that happen, negativity makes the world go round. Without someone saying something off key or uncalled for, all you'd have is a buncha idiots agreeing with themselves and I so can't deal with that.

Yes they do, but only when it amuses you.

Ok, advocating being mean to people. Here's an example that happened the other day.

A guy posted something like "What's the ratio to old bearded guys to fat women?" And then proceeded to insult damn near everyone he could. So you have to be nice and say "well, the ratio is x to x, why do you ask?"

Words can hurt, but only if you let them. If a child is taught that sticks and stones will break your bones, but words can't hurt you, its true. No matter what comes outta some idiot's mouth, until he hits you, it doesn't matter. Once you let words influence your life in a bad way, its off to the looney bin and happy drugs. Life is rough, if it were easy, we'd all be killing each other over who's happier. If there wasn't sad and depressing people, you couldn't gauge who is a shiney happy person.

Actually this is all a RESPECT thing you will receive the RESPECT back that one GIVES.

It is not that hard to click off the post if you find it as whinning to some these are real questions they want answered. Why cause they truly don't understand why and they would really like to understand.

We all get down at times and need a little help getting back up. How hard is it really to give a few kind words.

Most just need to think before they click that post topic button. And think for just a minute would this be what I would say if I was face to face with this person and they asked this question? How would I feel if it was me asking (it does not matter if you are sitting there shaking your head saying you never would ask it) just think for a change.

There are real people on the other side of these screens reading your words. How easy it would be to put a smile upon their face instead of a tear rolling down there cheek due to harsh words that was said without even a thought.

Ones should treat others the way they want to be treated. Not the way the world has treated you.

There is a human with feelings that are reading your words try for once to sit where they are. You have no ideal they could be on their last hope and you just made them feel worthless. For what your own satisfaction. HOW SAD!!!!

Obviously you are oblivious to how your "lets all just feel good about ourselves" has brought the level of our society down and have made our younger generations basically incompitent to handle what the "real world" is going to throw at them.

You sound like a person who would vote for taking the game "tag" out of school. In fear that some child would get "thier feelings hurt" because no one wanted to tag them. this was a LITERAL CASE!

Sometime the TRUTH can hurt. It's a part of life..DEAL WITH IT! Life is NOT fair..life is NOT about everyone feeling "good", in life you have "winners and losers". In life you have good and bad.

FACTS are FACTS. This bs mentality in America now, trying to "please all of the people all of the time" as you can clearly see right in front of your face..DOES NOT WORK! Why? Because LIFE IS NOT MADE THAT WAY! DUH!

This is NOT a flame nor is it said out of anger or in a hostile way. It's simple FACT and TRUTH, which you can run and hide and stick your head in a hole and hope it all goes away. But he FACT is its NOT going to.

A person MUST deal with LIFE on LIFE'S terms..not thier own terms. Life will win EVERY TIME!

Wish in one hand..crap in the other and see which becomes real. Thats just LIFE!

Some people are rude, some are direct, no matter what, there are entitled to their oppenion. If someone throws out something in an open forum such as this, they should be prepared to receive points of view from all personalities. This is not some nanny forum where mamma protects you from the bully down the street, we are adults.

There's a difference between asking for advice and the pity-seeking-woe-is-me threads that some people enjoy posting daily.

thank you!

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The only time i'll get rude is if someone posts a "Rate my profile" out of the designated forum.

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does that make me a bad person?

Curious, what is your job?

Are you working for money or respect?