Lady; Glad to hear your dad is improving.

Thanks for the help. I do follow others who post..just so many aren't anywhere close to me in St. Louis. The local Missouri thread moves a little slow and seems it's the same people lol. But I'll keep posting and see what comes my way.

I'm fairly new and read on a post that someone was tracking someone else's posts. Is there a way to look up a specific user to see under what topics they post on to learn more about them? I have a mutual match but wanted to find out more what they were like but haven't come across any posts by that person.

SteveFLA At least she gave some sort of an explanation.
It has happened to me. I've been told by a few guys that they wish more women would take the initative and start talking to them first. I say hi, we chat, we call each other, he repeats how he can't wait to meet, then when I try to make plans, he backs off. Righ now it's been happening with one guy so I ask him to be upfront and tell me if he's just not interested and I can then move on. But he keeps putting me off, "I'll call you this weekend" or "I'll write you and let you know."
Just make up your mind and say what you want.

Yes, I think dating is harder this time.
Expectations as to what dating is seems different
this time around. Because we are all older adults
sex seems to be a primary goal for a lot of men..they
don't want to take any time/effort to get to know each
other first. At least that has been my experience so
far, but I just started a few months ago. I'm being
patient though and try to learn as I go along.
Best of luck to you.

lady,

I'll keep you and your dad in my thoughts. Best of luck.

I'm a girly girl and like the fruity drinks..Strawberry daquari my fav, cheaper is fuzzy navel, sex on the beach, or good ol' screwdriver...used to drink Tom Collins too but been a long time.

I've got two I've talked with since joining, but that was just last week. Haven't met either one of them in person yet. Still hoping though.

That is a long list, and while I agree to almost all of them guys should note when reading it...you don't have to do them all -- all of the time..Change it up, pick half of them and you are in great standing with your woman.

Welcome RJ...i'm new too. Joined a week ago. Have fun.

true

I think lightening storms are very sexual.

Thanks Winx for the welcome mat. I had a fun holloween going door to door with my 3 year old son dressed as Woody from Toy Story. He really got into picking out candy for himself. Hope all went well for everyone.

Thanks Lady, you certainly move around. I've lived here pretty much all my life, except college.

Thanks for the hopeful response. Read your profile and you sound like a great catch for someone on the west side.

There are a lot of people with a lot of different attitudes. Just the right/wrong words and they disappear. All depends on what they are looking for I guess.

Hi all! I'm in St. Louis Mo and just signed up today.
Hoping to find more people to chat with in the local area.

Hello, I just joined today too. There are so many posts! I think it will take some time to settle in but everyone seems friendly.

Thanks for the response. I guess I'll look around a bit, see what happens. Good luck to you both.

Hi all. I'm looking to meet a great guy who is honest, respectful, and very affectionate to enjoy simple pleasures in life. I have a variety of interests, so check out my profile and drop me a line. I have only tried one other site, unfortunately with little success. Has anyone really found that special someone on here?