I am trying to do just that. It's scary out there though. Thank you, I wish you luck also and be careful.

I think you should work on your relationship, what i am saying is instead of cheating, instead of trying to be with two people and hurting both of them and yourself in the end, it is better to walk away from the one and start something new or to stop cheating and fix whatever is wrong at home. It takes two to save or end a relationship. There's no way to fix it by yourself.

I agree with you heartandsoul, I think you should end one relationship, before starting another. If you are not happy, you should leave, a little honesty would be nice. Shouldn't that be one of the basis for a good relationship? Thank you all for responding to my question and men, if I offened you by asking, why men cheat as opposed to why people cheat, I am sorry, I didn't mean any offense, I am a straight woman and I don't cheat, I have no interest in why women cheat. I am, however, interested in men and why they cheat. I finally divorced the man, I was with for 30 years and he cheated on me many times through the years. I asked him why and he said it just happened, but it happened a lot. I think I allowed him to continue, because I kept taking him back, because I loved him, but in the end I realized I love me, too and I deserve better than that. I need to take better care of me. I appreciate some of the comments, that I have gotten here, I feel a bit more informed. Thank you very much, everyone.

Thank you AndyBgood, you make a lot of interesting points and I can agree with you there. I think both parties must work together to keep the relationship interesting and from becoming stale, instead of either one of them cheating they should be trying to make it work. Like any other job, a relationship takes commitment from both parties and a lot of hard work.
To answer the question as to why women cheat, I really don't know, because I don't cheat. I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around and I can only handle one man at a time. But i think a woman would stray, if she is not getting what she needs at home. Just like a man women need to feel special and needed, desired and loved also. If they don't have that at home and there is a man paying attention to her and making her feel beautiful, she might tend to want to be with him. Though I would say leave the one who treats her like a dog and move on. I don't know why anyone would want to hold on to someone who direspects her, when she has found someone to treat her like a queen. I am a woman and i have no desire to cheat, which is why I didn't ask that question, but I have always wondered, why men cheat instead of just leaving, so the woman can get on with her life. No one male or female can have both, the one at home and the one in the street, sooner or later it all comes out.

I think to love unconditionally is to love no matter what. Love without expectation. To be there for someone whether they are there for you or not. To love for the rest of your life and then some. It is hard to to deliver and hard to find.

I agree, The Once Great, that is a valid fear, at times it seems that things keep getting worst, but all we can do is hang in there and pray. Pray that a better day will come in our livetime, pray that we will all be able to handle the pressure that is on us now and the pressure that is coming, pray for our sanity and the safe return of all the sons and daughters who are off in war and those who are about to go. I think, we must believe that God is able and will get us all through.

I will be praying for your son also.

Maybe they are afraid that you are not serious, or that you are not looking for the same things as they are. Some women date younger men and love it. I have not, so I can't really share the experience. Just some thoughts.

Those mountains are beautiful.

If there is anyone out there who knows the answer to this question, I would really like to know. If a man has a woman, who is faithful, and would have sex with him whenever he likes, why would that man cheat?

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This site has worked well for me. Though I have not met my soul mate, I have met a lot of new friends. I am not giving up on my soul mate, just taking it as it comes. He will come in time. You shouldn't give up so soon. Just be patient and enjoy the people you are meeting on your way to finding your true love, I am sure you will find each other soon. Good luck my friend, enjoy the journey.

My greatest fear is going through the rest of my life alone, never meeting or sharing my life with a man I can love, who will love me back, for me, not what I have or can get. Who will allow me to be me and love me because of it.

What is your greatest fear?

That is very sweet. I hope you have a truly blessed day also.

I struggle with be alone and lonely. I don't mind being alone at times, I enjoy my company, but I don't like being alone and LONELY. I believe that God made someone special for each of us, I struggle trying to find my mate.

I crochet butterfly magnets for the fridge, they seem to like those.