Not to get you ladies mad and this is not directed to anyone specific. But the ladies who tend to respect a disrespectful guy and live with the abuse lie about to themselves out of fear of facing the grim truth. The nice guys tend to finish last. Has been true in 90% of my experience. You can be good-looking and be willing to treat a girl like a princess and more times than not they pass you by for the guy who seems disinterested or more aloof to them. It's the natural desire of most human beings to desire that which is hard to get or be victorious in getting the thing it seemed they couldn't have. I just hope I can someday meet a girl with self-esteem and a loving heart is proud to be who she is and share her dreams with me.

I find that at my age of 38 most women my age seem to not be interested in a genuine romantic loyal man. I find that they have been weighed down by the emotional baggage of being mistreated by a man or men previously. When I was young I was a nitwit who never appreciated having the right girl in my life but now that I've shed such defects it seems most women don't respect a non-abusive man. I do blame men for that.