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Tue 11/20/07 06:22 AM
I've noticed that a friend becomes bf to rest of her life companion when he has the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$. That's on top of list for women. Anything less than that, they complain.

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Thu 11/01/07 07:48 PM
What's the scoop on the newer Harleys? I'm about to buy another one.

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Thu 11/01/07 07:41 PM
I've laid mine down because of an idiot. He got his though. Thank you for the posting.

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Thu 11/01/07 07:31 PM
Besides, why stay in one place long?

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Thu 11/01/07 07:30 PM
I think you can't buy people..Legally

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Thu 11/01/07 07:28 PM
Travel til I have no more money

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Thu 11/01/07 07:14 PM
If all else fails, drink some tequila. LOL. Just kidding..... somewhat.

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Thu 11/01/07 07:10 PM
It's not about not getting your feelings hurt, Sincereman. That will always happen. It's how you respond to the hurt that makes the difference.

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Thu 11/01/07 07:04 PM
Angelsing,
It is possible. You just have to really want it and work towards it. Sometimes it's as easy as reading the books, or coming online for advice and taking the ones you like.

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Thu 11/01/07 07:01 PM
Ladynluv,
I used to tell my parents that. LOL

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Thu 11/01/07 07:00 PM
Sincereman, you're correct about the ambulance. That is why you try to take the high road. If they attack, defend yourself. You're daughter is doing the right thing by defending herself. Make sure she goes to the administration before she fights, that way you'll have proof that she tried to avoid a fight.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:54 PM
ArtGurl you're so right on the money.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:53 PM
Actually, it is effective more often than not. I use it everyday in my line of work. Throughout my Psychology courses, I've intergrated the BIBLE and ZEN (Buddhism), with the observed psyche. I have had many situations where, all put together, the bad situations have ended good.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:48 PM
It does matter. If you ask them, and they answer. You'll know why they said those things. Then you can counter by asking them why they say those words. Ask them where they go to church. Ask them if they think GOD would like the way they are acting, etc. Do all that in a calm relaxing voice. Remember, kill them with kindness. If they see you're not affected by their verbal attacks, they will stop. When you start asking them about the religious stuff, they'll back off.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:40 PM
I would ask why they are calling me that.
Why?

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Thu 11/01/07 06:37 PM
Angelsing,
I know how you feel. Been there. The BIBLE and ZEN books will help you out alot, if you let them. Not sure which religion you follow, but with don't change your faith, just add to it.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:29 PM
Angelsing, good deal. Go to Half Price Books. After my divorce, I had no direction. My church wasn't helping so I sought Peace. Found it while I assisted my Sifu.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:23 PM
Angelsing,
I think Sincere is not shutting down. He's just focusing his attention elsewhere. That is the best thing to do. Use your energy productively. You'll always feel better.

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Thu 11/01/07 06:18 PM
Sincereman- That is part of ZEN. Let go of everything. Then you have nothing to worry about.

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Thu 11/01/07 05:54 PM
Choke them out. Takes 5 seconds or less.

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