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Sun 07/20/08 09:23 AM

Poor Poor chuck.......with all of those insecurities and lack of common sense, can you all see how "That's the kind of guy no woman wants."' Chuck you need to get over yourself and keep moving. Don't think you even need to look on here for a woman let alone someone wanting to meet with you!.


I bet you are republican too? did you vote for BUSH?

when clinton lied NOBODY died..

are you better off now then you were 8 years ago>

I think not... it's not about me.. it's about
people's attitude about society... it's gone downhill
a lot since the stupid war in iraqi is killing the
young people in this country.

I can hardly wait till that monster in the white house
is out!

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Sun 07/20/08 03:07 AM
Nine tips on how to enjoy your newly found romance:

1. Be a gentleman. An older woman wants to be treated with respect, like any woman does. While she might attracted to your rebelliousness or youthful attitude, she still wants you to treat her with good manners.

2. Don't get ahead of yourself. Don't worry about the future until you actually might have one. Take your time and allow the relationship to develop.

3. Stay calm. You may be excited, but don't overdo it. Have fun and enjoy your dates, but don't come on too strong. She has some reservations, too.

4. Be charming. Don't underestimate how powerful your smile can be. Use it often, make eye contact, and keep the conversation flowing. Pay attention to what interests you about your date, and show interest in her opinions, experiences, and activities. Be complementary whenever possible, and respond intelligently to whatever she says.

5. Don't focus on looks.
“Give complements, but focus less on her physical appearance -- she may be anxious about it.”
Give complements, but focus less on her physical appearance -- she may be anxious about it. And even if you're complementary, she may worry that you're too focused on looks. She wants to be appreciated for who she is, including her intellect and style. Compliments like "That color is lovely on you," or "You look great tonight" are safer than "You're in great shape."

6. Have fun. Keep your dates simple and have a good time. Focus on being pleasant, and not getting too far ahead of the relationship. Refrain from talking too long about any one subject without inviting a comment from your date.

7. Keep conversation interesting and light. Feel free to talk about anything, including your personal lives, past relationships, and love in general, but don't be the one who brings up the intimate topics first. Be wary of prying too deeply into her private life and secrets, unless the information is voluntarily offered.

8. Avoid talking too much about yourself. Keep your focus on learning about your date. Dole out the boring information about yourself. Punctuate your conversation with questions: "What do you think?" "Has it been that way for you?"

9. Pay attention! Listen to answers to your questions. You have things to learn here! Seek to get to know each other better. No matter how thrilled you may be about her, listening to what she says, watching what she does, and understanding how she feels are the most important things you can do.

ChuckinSarasota's photo
Sat 07/19/08 10:01 PM
Thank you Amanda!

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Sat 07/19/08 09:48 PM
can you see what this breeds? just more negativity

trash the list..and you guys don't have to write it down

do as you would like others to do to you

remember the Golden Rule...

write THAT down and follow it with your heart!


If you want an example of what a man and a woman
seek you might enjoy reading my profile..

no it's not perfect.. but it's sincere

enjoy

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Sat 07/19/08 09:46 PM
Then go towards the confident man..and stop bashing men

We have feelings too...

smile be happy and forget the men who don't treat you right

Start by sending a positive message about what makes you HAPPY...
ok?

think about it...and smile

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Sat 07/19/08 09:45 PM
Ladies.. think about happy thoughts.. think about good times,
great expectations create real results... take a note from Dale Carnegie classes... How to stop worrying and start living.... How to win and influence friends...

Be friendly.. say hello.. SMILE...


Thanks for listening...

and please Ladies.. respond to good thoughts... telling
about bad things only perpetuates it... go towards what
you want... and dream about it... think about it..and
it will come towards you too.

Good Luck and Happiness to us all!


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Sat 07/19/08 09:41 PM
what scares a guy? A woman who wants to change him
a woman who worries too much about things like what was
mentioned here... relax... love and friend come naturally

stop bashing guys will ya?

give us a break.

thank you

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Sun 03/02/08 06:30 PM
you people being mean about Hillary...

God will remember you when you are on the other side.

Be nice while you still can be.

God Bless

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Thu 02/07/08 07:48 AM
I'd love to meet a nice woman to go out with..
see my profile...

I'm also on plentyoffish as mrchuck


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Mon 10/22/07 05:06 AM
Hitler is dead... read your history