girls that say "well dont listen to them because they obviously arent attractive so they're *insert air-headed comment*"

going home soon

down to the

the best way to win the game is to not play at all.

bigmaq as got it on the money; When anyone starts looking too hard, the smell of desperation permeates the air. Let go of everything, (ZEN). Be happy while you're on your path alone. She/he will notice you.

In all honesty I dont think its good to have girl-friends, not GF's but friends whom are women.

man, that right there is a prime example why the english language SUCKS.

I spend a lot of time on Yahoo answers, dating and singles area.
time and time again I read about girls and guys that are falling for their friend.
its such a damn a mess. screws the frienship up and makes it awkward when all friends get together.

not saying that guys & girls shouldnt just hang out, but I think its dangerous for a guy and a girl whom are JUST friends to hang out, UNLESS both of them are fully grounded in their *just friends* state.

I've had this before and its annoying as hell when you start picking up signals that you, once friend, now has a crush on you.
ugh, complications.

I guess this is more common in my age bracket though.
Groups are safer since the attention isnt focussed one on one but I still reckon its dodgy.

that was good advice and insight dragoness

I live by many mottos...

they all summarise into:

God loves me unconditionally.

careless

that rusty old

I agree with sincereman51, except for the God part.

when my best friend was 19 he was dating a 29y/o. what a mess.

my uncle dated a women whom was I thik 9years older than he, they dated for 8 year and then got married. they're great together.

my brother is 22, he's dating a 27/28y/o. seems well, cant tell right now.

my cousin (19) is about to get married to a 22y/o. Its destined for divorce, everyone in MY family can see it. everyone in HER family is like "HOORAY"

Im not for older women. (although having said that and knowing my life I'll probably end up with an older woman )
but I reckon that divide by 2 +7 for men works for some age brackets.

I dont associate dating with sex either.
I associate se with marriage.
I associate dating with potential fun.
after all it is a fun process to find if your date is special or not!
as long as they dont turn out pyscho!

to me the whole point of dating is to find if your initial attraction to each other can grow into something like, um, I dunno, love?

too true though, today version of dating is warped.

somepeople say its "just for fun" (mostly women) but I believe they only say this line for various reasons which totally depend on her personality, standards, values etc etc

it could mean that she IS infact looking for a real relationship but doesnt want to state it aloud because she feels it might scare guys away... so this allows more fish in the pool where she may hook a one that isnt at FIRST interested in longterm but then changes his mind with her.

It could also mean that she just wants a loose relationship with sex.

It could mean that she's reluctant to go far with anyguy because she's been hurt and wants to be careful.

but to me, I date because at first Im attracted, so I wanna know if she is worth spending time with as a friend, find the/any common interests, beliefs, matching personalitys etc etc and depending on what matches what will depend on how much time I will wanna spend.

I def. dont think MARRIAGE when I approach a woman.
Attraction is sparked, I approach, Im thinking 'potential fun'. if the fun is there, Im thinking 'potential love' if the love is there; just spend time together to see if it MAY work longterm.

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skin. Suddenly I

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(LOL^)

but I doubt

sharon

she wasnt THAT

stole from that