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Thu 01/03/08 12:53 PM
and then we will never go on another date again, haha

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Thu 01/03/08 12:53 PM
unless she started talking about her ex's, then she will get some stories out of me.

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Thu 01/03/08 12:52 PM
I would never talk about an ex to someone I was dating

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Thu 01/03/08 12:51 PM
I guess the only reason I don't think what I say is because I'm afraid people will make fun of it or what always happens to me, just interrupt me while i am talking.

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Thu 01/03/08 12:36 PM
i agree with you there lilith

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Thu 01/03/08 12:35 PM
thanks everyone

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Thu 01/03/08 12:16 PM
Edited by stevenpwis on Thu 01/03/08 12:18 PM

Sometimes, well most of the time, it's the quality of the conversation, not the quantity, that stimulates the mind of the strange creature we call woman.


My ex would actually put me down because I would have a conversation that only consisted of 2 to 4 sentences, she would tell me to make them longer.

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Thu 01/03/08 12:15 PM


My question for people, hopefully some women can answer this for me. I am a very quiet person and I know women like a great conversationalist for one of the qualities in a man. I am slowly learning how to be better at conversation, but are there any women in the world who likes a quiet guy?


Steven: From the short period of time I've been posting, I have to say I have seen no shortage of comments and participation from you in written format. Stop typing and start talking out loud and you'll be fine.


The only problem is, I don't know if you've noticed, most of my topics were about one thing and that was the girl that I was with for a month and a half. I basically posted since day one of that short relationship. I just can't figure out what to talk about when I do talk.

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Thu 01/03/08 12:04 PM
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Thu 01/03/08 12:02 PM
she tried to change me

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Thu 01/03/08 12:01 PM
my ex always tried getting me to talk, she would stare at me which would put me on the spot and i would get nervous.

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Thu 01/03/08 11:57 AM
don't get me wrong, I do talk, just not as much as I should I guess

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Thu 01/03/08 11:52 AM
My question for people, hopefully some women can answer this for me. I am a very quiet person and I know women like a great conversationalist for one of the qualities in a man. I am slowly learning how to be better at conversation, but are there any women in the world who likes a quiet guy?

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Thu 01/03/08 09:19 AM
Edited by stevenpwis on Thu 01/03/08 09:22 AM

Been there done that brotha! Don't sweat it. You will be fine. In fact, dating someone else is rather good or focus on your work will help.

Remember though to respect the other person's feelings if it progresses. It's not fair to her to be used as a comfort zone or rebound girl. If you are really interested in her then go for it.:

Time will heal and then you won't give your ex a second thought. Trust me!

Peacedrinker




I do seem like I am on the rebound, I will probably just go on that date and that may be it for a while. I'm not too sure if I am ready to take that chance of getting a broken heart again. I think the reason I am so hurt is because I treated her so good. She did tell me that I did everything right when she broke up with me, but she also told me that I called her too much and wanted to see her too much, so I am guessing I was too suffocating. She also revealed that she is asexual when she broke up with me, that's why she didn't kiss me in that amount of time we were together.
I need to learn to slow things down a bit.

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Thu 01/03/08 09:16 AM
I know for a fact it wasn't love, I don't know what it was, I just know that I miss her.

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Thu 01/03/08 09:13 AM
I only go in the forums for online friends, no one in my area goes in forums that I have noticed so far. I know for me, I will not ever go for a long distance relationship.

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Thu 01/03/08 09:05 AM
I'm thinking the same thing, my only problem is that I am slightly anti-social and very shy. I am actually starting on Tuesday at a pet adoption place volunteering to meet people. I would consider volunteering if you have the time.

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Thu 01/03/08 09:01 AM
Edited by stevenpwis on Thu 01/03/08 09:03 AM
I have posted many times about my ex I was only with for a month and a half. If you really want to know the whole story there are many threads about her that I started since day one of our relationship. Anyway, I really fell for her hard and fast, and since she broke up with me on Christmas I can't stop thinking about her. I have a date on Sunday night with another girl, but I have no idea how to get this other girl out of my head. Anyone have any ideas on how to motivate myself? I'm actually feeling severe depression sometimes over her, and it's really not worth it.

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Wed 01/02/08 09:43 PM
heres one that was used on me...________________________________________________________

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Wed 01/02/08 09:40 PM
wow, you really are the black hole

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