Chris; the first thing to do is not panic. If you do not get answers from the spirits you see, then by all means contact people who do paranormal investigations. Also you may want to try to burn white sage and smduge your home. Smudging is burning the sage making it smoke and going through your home with the smoke and ask the spirits to leave, and if you know the 23rd Psalm it may help to recite it in each room. The spirits may go away for a time, but may come back, this will give you time to talk to paranormal investigators and if you choose your religeous leader. He may do a blessing on your home also.
I know that this can be very scary, and like it was told to you, maybe they come to you because they know you can see them and they have not crossed over and need help. So seek someone who can help you in helping them. But becareful in your choice of the paranormal people, some are just fake.
I know that this may sound a bit weird, but there is a tv show on Wed. nights called Ghost Hunters; it is on the Sci Fi channel, These people go and do investigations to disprove paranormal activity, but if there is activity to be found they can get help for you. You may want to check them out on
Sci Fi/Ghost Hunters. The name of the group is called Tapps. Maybe they have other Tapps members in your area. It is worth a look see. I wish you luck. Please let me know how it is going for you in that realm.

I am happy that others feel the same way I do.
Too much focus on the differences and not enough on the sameness.

I don't think that you are judgemental towards all women, just the ones who really do not know what they want in life, or could it be that somewhere in their sub-councious they feel that they do not deserve a "good guy." The woman's self esteem has alot to do with the choices she makes. Just like a man's self esteem has alot to do with his.
Just keep in mind that this is not really a small world. and you are only dealing with a very minute part of it. Getting to know more and more people. I too am a good woman, and I want a good man. Personally I have come across a good man, only to find that he was not totally honest with me and honesty rides high on my list. Please do not lump all woman kind into the ones you described, the ones you are looking for are out there, it could be that we too have been hurt to the point of being afraid to try and trust again.

I am in agreement with TrueJedi
I do not own a camera or a scanner, so what is a person to do? If you guys know how to fix that let me in on the secret. I have nothing to hide, just do not have the means to show myself on the computer, just snail mail.
Judge not though, lest ye be judged.

I agree with the country girl, why not be real and quit sending out mixed signals to a guy. In my book is just game playing and if you young ones only knew that life is way too short and precious to play games, and messing with someone elese emotions does not give you the right to complain if they mess over you. Honesty is the best policy no matter what the relationship, would you like someone doing those things to you?:
Just my take on things. You don't have to like it and more than likely most of you wont.

Hey, I know that the wound is fresh and will take time to heal, one thing I have learned over my many years of life, if someone, be it male or female, isolates their partner from their friends, that is a huge warning sign of an abuseive person. Your true friends will not give up on you, even if you "had" to step away for a time. You are never alone, believe it or not Creator is walking with you.
There are better and bigger fish in the sea, do not be in a hurry at your young age to be bound down. Life your life to the fullest and get to know what you do not want in life. Stand firm for yourself.
Take Care Young One,
Ya Ta Hey (Peace Be with You)
Raven Wolf

Hey there
Does one not want to be friends with the one they date? It seems to me to make things go a bit smoother to be friends first then progress from there. Can you imagine just dating people who are not friends in some way or another?
Hope you find who you are looking for.