man who post in many threads

I have never been able to help myself from making jokes when I shouldn't

wel tell me where to get one then my head can be in comfort too

stop lying I have it on video did you forget?


I have never chased a nun with a candle stick in church

you look so comfy in that pic

pillow woman

yug rettuhs


( what is that you ask? its a backwards shutter guy)

I have never run down the street in a gorilla costume chasing cars on the road with water ballons

I have to agree with the most here

If I were txting me and calling me everyday I would run from me too

one months time is not that long and its way too early for that kind of commitment

good luck anyway

Troublemaker7
I am sure he won't mind you picking up the tab, and I know where you are coming from too
We did grow up in different worlds compared to those who believe in that the man should always pay thing.
I know you just want to feel like you are doing your part too
and there is nothing wrong with that
Dam us independent women

I find that the old fashioned way does come from older people
and there is nothing wrong with the old fashioned values.
but it does kinda make some women feel uncomfortable in that situation.
and its only because many of us grew up learning how to pay our way
some of us girls feel proud that we can take care of ourselves
you know earn a living afford to take care of our kids without help.
and it never means that we don't appreciate the guy, we just want to show them that they can count on us too.

well then don't be afraid to say hey I want to pay too
many men now days do not mind this at all,
remember he is not going to ask you to do it but I bet he will appreciate it when you do help pay for your evenings out.
if he gets the tab then you pick up the tip
or if you do something else in the night get whatever the next event of the evening is.

good luck

lady in the shadows of your door

next time just pull out your cash or bank card and a say MY TURN
there is not proper way just say hey let me help with that
its easy you can do it.

hit reply,
type in box
hit post topic

do this often you will be fine

and welcome

not finding where I left off in a thread that pisses me off

mystery nurse

first of all she should not be too willing to bring the kids into it if you are just starting out on dating.
Second make sure that she is the one with all the discipline its not for the step parent or potential new partner to take over.
if she is looking for an instant father figure then it could be a problem in the future.
if it feels like they are being pushed on you too soon it may be an issue
I had kids when I met my Ex and never once made him feel pressured into the family thing he was younger as well it took time and when it was my time with the kids it was my time with them, we fit our relationship around it and he understood and took great care bringing him into the fold so to speak.
they are no grown now and have a good relationship with their step dad.
they treated him with respect and grew to go to him as someone they could count on while their dad was in the prison system for many years.
it is something to think about to be sure but you will have to see how she handles things as well to really make your decision

prayers to your family good to here its going better
Enjoy your holiday