I do agree with your point of view, that it seems like being a Christian means that we have to live alone. I have tried & looked to meet a born again man, to share my life with. But all I've found is men who just want sex, & I won't have sex before marriage. But you know what I'm learning, is to thank God that I'm never alone, as long as I have him in my life. Plus the fellowship of my brothers & sisters in the Lord. We just have to be patient & God in his timing will lead us to someone.