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Mon 01/17/11 01:59 PM
Hello

From a mans perspective you sound in your description that you are hurting. Everyone that I know in the single life (I was given the opportunity to experience the lifestyle almost 10 years ago) has experienced a bad relationship or two.

In my past I was guilty making all inclusive statements about women that were not complimentary either. It was a good friend of mine that put put me straight with the question I will ask you. He asked me is it that women are bad? Or is your judgement in women bad? Or more importantly do you not trust your own judgement to try to date someone or are you too afraid to make a mistake and learn from it.

You cannot blame all men just like I was wrong to blame all women. Your picture is great. Tone down the anti man rhetoric. You can be clear about what you want without making people run away from you. I am sure you are a very nice person who has been hurt. My advice take the time to recover from being hurt, examine what contributions you are making when you choose someone to make sure there are no unconscious decision making that sabotages your happiness and then try again.

Good luck in your search...