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Thu 06/02/11 01:32 PM

Marriage
DING DING DING...We have a winner...lol

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Tue 05/31/11 10:04 PM
Most of mine are in my profile, but I am thinking I want a Phoenix next...

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Wed 05/25/11 07:59 AM

I'm dating a girl who lives across the country, been with her for 5 months now. Just yesturday I got got a friend request on facebook from some other girl who thought I was cute, we trade phone numbers.

Once we started texting, I told her that I do have a girlfriend, this new girl didn't seem to care as she kept insisting to check out her topless pictures, after a long time of telling her no, I finally gave in and told her to send them. I honestly did not look at them, I just told her so she'd get off my back, I deleted them and lied that I saw them.

She wanted me to send her some dirty pictures but I never did, the only thing was a regular face picture. Most of last night she kinda kept disrespecting the relationship and tempting me to send her pics and help her play with herself, I refused.

I sounded like a broken record sometimes, that I'm very loyal and will never cheat and what she wanted me to do was like cheating. She kept on saying what a great catch I was and she wants to be with me... but my mind is set I've got a great girlfriend and I'm not the cheating type, I believe in flirting with other people as long as it doesn't turn into sex texting.

Advice here? Should I just delete and block this person and do like it never happened?

Or do I tell me gf about this girl? so that I'm not 'hiding' stuff?
What type of "dating" are you doing all the way across the country? Is this just an online relationship or something real?

You already said that you did not like how forward the new girl is being, but in my experiences it sounds like one of those online scammers...they send you pics of them self and does not seem to actually read what you write back to them because they already have a script wrote out they send to everyone. Later on she will start asking you for money...lol

Either way it would probably be best just to delete the new girl and put a block on her. To tell the other girl about her is up to you, it would depend on how jealous she gets I would say but you know her better than we do. Good Luck

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Tue 05/24/11 11:37 AM
I give up, why?...lol

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Tue 05/24/11 11:35 AM
Yeah I seen the after show part. Russell wanted to act all tough and then Jeff called him out...lol

I do not agree with the strategy of throwing the game just to get Russell out, he was not that big of a threat at the time since he only had the two girls with him. They should have won (or at least tried to win) a few more challenges before they voted him off.

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Tue 05/24/11 11:26 AM

"What makes a genius?"

I think the question is asked wrongly.

I think we should ask

"who makes a genius?"

The answer would be, the parents, of course.
I would half way agree, but the student needs to have the desire to learn also and need the proper teachers...

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Tue 05/24/11 11:20 AM
His math is good, just his grip on reality that he needs the refresher on...lol

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Thu 05/19/11 08:59 PM
I did not watch the previews but if they want to bring someone back there is better choices other that the Special fed idiot. A bunch of people from the other tribe would be good, that Ralph had a good start...

I have never watched Big Brother... it does not look like something for me...

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Tue 05/17/11 12:29 PM
Wow...No comments about the final show? I missed the first half of it so I got to watch it online tonight if I remember...

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Sat 05/14/11 12:24 AM

Iam no therapist and i have not been helping her with any advice before,its suprising to receive such a weird request from her.Thanks guys for the advice iam already ruñning
Then I would guess she is trying to fall back to someone she feels comfortable with, this is thin ice area...I would be very careful. I would say to stay out of it, there is no way it will be good for you. Either you will make her mad or make her new guy mad at you for butting in (even though she asked). Hopefully you are not looking for anything to start back up with her...That is a whole different can of worms...

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Sat 05/14/11 12:18 AM
I know I am "Romantically-Challenged", I always have been and probably always will be but that does not stop me from trying...lol. It is just that most girls think that guys should be as romantic as they are but in reality I think that most guys were not born with the romance gene and they need to accept that and have patience with us...lol

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Sat 05/14/11 12:13 AM
LOL...I like the blocks on the belly idea, that is good...

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Sat 05/14/11 12:09 AM
Being considered a genius is all about the questions they are being asked, you might consider a doctor a genius in his field of study but you get him dealing with working on his car or geology and he would be as dumb as the village idiot. Even the IQ tests are suppose to be on a general knowledge nothing specific so they can try not and be bias for any field.

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Fri 05/13/11 08:19 PM

Turn offs
checkin' his watch
I would be screwed...You can ask me how the weather is and I have a habit of looking at my watch as if the answer is there and then talking...lol

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Fri 05/13/11 08:16 PM

Its barely 2yrs after we separated now suddenly she is making phone calls asking me to talk to her boyfriend who probably is now loosing interest in her.She says she would call her boyfriend by my name during conversations.She has done that for a couple of times now.i asked why she was doing that.....she says its by mistake,however she has no clue whether she still loves me or not.....can i be the right person to mediate betwéen them or is it my bone to chew anywhere???????
It confuses me why she would think you would be able to help her, or even why you would want to... Are you a Therapist or something? Are you friends with both of them or is she just calling out of the blue? Have you been giving her advice on other stuff since you broke up?

If she is calling him by your name then he is doing something that reminds her of you, good or bad I do not know. It seems like there is more to the story that we do not know...

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Fri 05/13/11 08:10 PM
Join in to the conversations here and I am sure you will make many friends here. Good Luck

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Fri 05/13/11 08:08 PM
Turn on is confidence in yourself, I understand being shy at first but after a few minutes you should be able to open up. Try talking about a subject that you are go in and then your confidence will start to shine though.

Turn offs for me is the cell phone which others have mentioned, but it is anything that takes away from the one-on-one time...they could be totally ignoring their date by talking to their friend who they just ran into or anything. The other turn off I see too many times is smoking...

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Thu 05/12/11 08:16 PM
If they did not want to tell you the secret then they would not have said that they had the secret in the first place. A relationship needs to have trust so if one person is openly holding a secret from the other person then I do not see that as a healthy relationship. It would not work out for me...

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Thu 05/12/11 07:12 AM
It is just part of your character if you would think so little of someone else's time that you would stand them up. I do not remember ever being stood up for a date but I have for business meetings and that is something that is a deal breaker unless they have a really good excuse like they are in the hospital or something...lol

I have met someone online who was not who they describe them self as, but when we talked about meeting up it was clear we were just meeting as friends so there was no pressure on either side...

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Wed 05/11/11 10:14 PM
Even if the special fed is all an act, he is still pissing people off enough that I do not think they would vote for him in the end...but I could be wrong... He thinks he has a plan so we will have to see.

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