Well as you can see by my posts I've been here a while, so the friends I was closest to and loved most, are gone Excepting long-lasting friends like Joy, Kerry, Goof & Johnny.

You are all unique and fun. As much as these threads aren't meant to be "popularity contests" that's what they turn into and those you forget to mention feel forgotten.

We've had soooo many threads, especially a couple years ago, about 'cliques' and the such, but there is no way you can't become cliquish in social circles. It's the nature of the beast. And each wave of posters includes their own circle. It just happens.



That said you all

U have rejected me at least a thousand times but I never tool it personal, U just dont like pervs!!


EXACTLY. I used to do the same, because I was taught that is just common courtesy.

But when you receive back some ugly response to your decency? Nah .. not doin that anymore. You're right, rejection is not handled well by many.

I don't think anyone should feel badly if someone doesn't sense chemistry .. geesh

I have noticed that more and more people are here for friendship only, whether they be new or old. Personally, I'm here for the same reason. There are times that I would look at someone's profile or even send them a message because:

1. I randomly clicked on their profile and found something in there that piqued my curiosity.
2. I saw them around the Community Forum and found them funny or interesting.
3. I was just THAT bored.

But some people would automatically assume that just because I initiated the contact: I want to date them, get their money, or marry them. Has anything like this ever happened to you too, wherein you found someone interesting on a friendship level, but they immediately took it the wrong way? How can you tell people that, "No, I don't find you hot. I'd probably slit my wrists with a rusty butter knife before I'd consider dating you. I actually just want to be friends." Have you ever initiated contact because you genuinely just want to be friends and they never replied back, or if they did, only gave you a perfunctory answer?

I'm probably not making any sense, but they're serious questions.

if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.

That would be both last night

We won .. 41-0 The other team will never be the same. Too funny, guess they were trash talking our team all over their FB pages .. who's talkin now?