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Mon 12/10/07 04:39 PM
Welcome aboard Chrissyflowerforyou

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Mon 12/10/07 04:34 PM




love is a strong word for me.. im either going to have some good and bad relationship and maybe im just going out with this women for the only reason is about her looks.. thats one definitin ....Love is a crime that you cant run away from and you keep coming back


Whoah!

I think you should REALLY study up on some definitions and at least get yourself in a place where you are ready for real "love".

Otherwise you are going to get run over and demolished in heart and emotions. You should start LISTENING to some of these people's answrs to your questions and really think about them. Several people have givin you some really good advise...but for some reason you still seem to be very lost.


He's 18, cut the guy a break.flowerforyou


but you can only watch a pup chase his tail for so long too. happy


I once had a dog that was obsessed with tail chasing. Should have taught her not to do it near a cliff.sad

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Mon 12/10/07 04:27 PM


Someone's getting coal in their stocking this yearnoway


With gas and heating costs the way they are, I'm glad I've saved up all my coal, I'm laughing at santa all the way to the bank this year, thanks for the coal!


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So, see there's something good about Christmas after all!

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Mon 12/10/07 04:24 PM


love is a strong word for me.. im either going to have some good and bad relationship and maybe im just going out with this women for the only reason is about her looks.. thats one definitin ....Love is a crime that you cant run away from and you keep coming back


Whoah!

I think you should REALLY study up on some definitions and at least get yourself in a place where you are ready for real "love".

Otherwise you are going to get run over and demolished in heart and emotions. You should start LISTENING to some of these people's answrs to your questions and really think about them. Several people have givin you some really good advise...but for some reason you still seem to be very lost.


He's 18, cut the guy a break.flowerforyou

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Mon 12/10/07 04:20 PM
You can always depend on geek to make you smile.flowerforyou

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Mon 12/10/07 04:19 PM
theels...I think that's more lust then love and a bit of loneliness thrown in for good measure. Love doesn't come easy or fast generally, and I don't think it should. flowerforyou

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Mon 12/10/07 04:12 PM



you start to fall in love with the people that you just met....


Define what you think love is.



there are so many definition for love..which one do you want me to define?

Your definition of love, what does love feel like to you?

Example for me; Smiling at the little things they said; Can't wait to touch them; Knowing I have a friend not only a lover.

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Mon 12/10/07 04:07 PM

you start to fall in love with the people that you just met....


Define what you think love is.

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Mon 12/10/07 04:04 PM
Someone's getting coal in their stocking this yearnoway

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Sun 12/09/07 05:23 PM
Edited by LLH5 on Sun 12/09/07 05:51 PM

ah, I see you added a picture...now people will have a better idea of who they are meeting....Happy Birthday to you...I'm Sure now you'll get more responses....and not just from the over 60 crowd...

And LLH...looks do matter as i've already explained...& as you expressed in your email to me...true?


I didn't say looks don't matter. What I said was why should they matter in answering her question as to what age group she may have a chance with.

As for my email to you, which was private by the way, and sent long before this thread was started. I never mentioned one thing about looks. I said you looked like a guy from long ago I was crazy about. Don't quote me out of context.

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Sun 12/09/07 03:45 PM

Well Italian, have you considered the possiblity that maybe your ex was a bull dyke who just didn't want to dissapoint her family and come out of the proverbial closet? Or perhaps you ex was transgender and just kept it from you? Maybe you were dating a once beautiful man whose looks began to fade while his interest in sports center peaked?........See, I have to wonder if maybe the problem isn't with the significant other, but rather the problem is you.....drinker smokin


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Sun 12/09/07 03:26 PM

think i already explained myself



not mean, honest, if you ask the question about what age group you should be dating, you should have a picture posted....otherwise how could anyone truthfully answer your question....after all this is a dating site


The answer shouldn't be about what you look like. Are you saying if she's a hot 50 yr old woman you could tell her what age group would be interested in her? Tell me it isn't so...



No, I don't think you did explain that comment.

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Sun 12/09/07 03:23 PM

not mean, honest, if you ask the question about what age group you should be dating, you should have a picture posted....otherwise how could anyone truthfully answer your question....after all this is a dating site


The answer shouldn't be about what you look like. Are you saying if she's a hot 50 yr old woman you could tell her what age group would be interested in her? Tell me it isn't so...

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Sun 12/09/07 02:14 PM

well bro before you have women thinking you speak for all men how about in my opinion or i believe or my thoughts, noticed you are not responding to my posts, Guess you may just be trying to get attention from the ladies so good luck to ya.


I think you're correctflowerforyou And, I also believe the attention he's drawing from the women isn't positive.

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Sun 12/09/07 02:01 PM
Edited by LLH5 on Sun 12/09/07 02:01 PM
Age group is all over the place. Though, it does seem men in their early 40s aren't into us. At least that's my experience.

Let me add; Never lie about your age or weight.

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Sun 12/09/07 01:54 PM

I have heard there is a secret society of underground women who DEAL with THESE ISSUE'S.....

THEY will STOP at NOTHING to get back at ALL MEN who oppose there thoughts and gains....THEY will FIND YOU, and ,,,,enough said..






They call them selves,,,,,THE GIRLSCOUTS of AMERICA.....LOL
Their VERY competitive,,,,,lol,,,,lolbigsmile


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Sun 12/09/07 01:53 PM
Edited by LLH5 on Sun 12/09/07 01:55 PM
They have closed threads down. Though I think it's due to people getting out of hand. This is out of hand in a way. Mike stop the thread before we lose our minds.

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Sun 12/09/07 01:49 PM




Why do you feel you have to compete with a woman? If you are a couple, isn't our career suppose to make our lives better for both of us? My ex use to think of our life as a game...who could make the most money? Did it really matter? I thought it was, lets try to save and get ahead in life.
I think if a man worries about having to compete with his woman, then he isn't happy with himself. So I suggest you look deep inside and see what is missing in you!! Why do women have to give up their careers to make you feel more sufficient? How do you know that one day something might not happen to where we might have to be the sole supporter?? Don't knock our careers..they might come in handy one day!!




Maam, I think you missed the point. Sorry.

The point was not for women to give up their careers, wander back into the kitchen, and become baby making machines.

The point is for successful women to try not to compete with a man, in their relationship (i.e. to try not to show up a man's success, or rub it in his face that she makes more money than him). This is unattractive to men. Also, secondly, if a woman takes on masculine traits, men will find this unattractive as well.



I think your whole point is crazy!! You are afraid that a woman will do better then a man. You are afraid that she might like sports...so what?? Does it mean that we become men if we watch football? Please!!! Are you just afraid that a woman might actually know a little bit more then you will?? It sounds like to me that you are not to sure about yourself!!
I think you need to grow some!! Get some confidence, I always hated when a man didn't have confidence in themselves..that is so unattracive!!!
Plus, just because we hit the age of 40~~that doesn't mean we stop dressing up and looking good. In fact, theres times that we look mighty fine. Maybe you need to venture out more!!!:wink:


Let's try to keep the comments constructive, and avoid personal attacks.

You keep missing the point dear, but I will repeat it...

The point is NOT about a woman doing anything better than a man. We all recognize that some women have achieved, or accomplished, more than some men. The point is also NOT about fear. This is a huge point that some women miss. Men are not fearful of women. We are just hard wired to be unattracted to a woman that tries to compete with us. We may ignore the competetive nature of a competetive woman, to get her into bed. But for something long lasting, we need a woman to not try to compete with us.

The point is that it is unattractive to a man, for a woman to try to show up the man she is trying to date, or brag about her success, or try to prove that she is just as good as a man. It is also unattractive to a man, for a woman to show off her manly traits.



And it's unattractive for a man to try and prove he's better then a woman.

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Sun 12/09/07 01:43 PM
I have a solution for you. Find a woman that will have sex while watching Sports Center. Might be less threatening to you. noway

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Sun 12/09/07 01:34 PM

i think there's actually a trend in hip elite schools to bring back home economics so all the future to be singles, men included, know how to clean their underwear and hardboil an egg.


Their underware wouldn't get so soiled if they learned how to wipe right.laugh

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