Lol love everyone wants it but not everyone can handle it even if they found it cause there's more to love the just loving someone. This topic of love or convinance sounds a lot like my last relationship and that's why I broke up wit her. Everything was to convinent for her which made me wonder weather or not I was jus being used but at the same time I think it was somthing that couldn't be helped, and dispite how much I've grown to care for her and dare I say it I love her, but I don't trust her. Sometimes I wonder if the circumstances weren't there that things may actually work and that our instant relationship would have pulled though. It wasn't love at first site but we fell into one ever so quickly and ever so quickly did it end with all questions in the air. Love is real but not always sweet and not easy, but convinancey is a tricky lier that will fool any lovers heart.

how bout i say thank you and shut up.
there you go.

you sound like a horribly cheesy pick up line.
ahahahaha.

on saturday someone said;
you're perfect.

Agreed himself! After the ex hubby got sentenced & sent away I waited years before moving on. I was so in love with him I didn't want to! Eventually, I gave into the pressures & suggestions to just find a replacement and "settle". I spent 4 yrs with someone that I love as a person & friend, but never made my heart flutter!

IMO-hold out for love!!! The passion and happiness can not be duplicated by settling. I still hear the riff-raff about how someone with an academic career like myself shouldn't waste their time with a convict, but it really doesn't matter to my heart. The critics don't really "know" either of us, our history, or the fact that he is serving this sentence because his friend, the real perpetrator of the crime, had a son to raise so he passed the blame onto the only other person he could!

Listen to advice, but follow your heart-IME, it's the only way to be truly happy! I did everything that people said to do to "get over him" and nothing worked. My personal healing process & journey to find myself again, just brough me right back to him. Lucky for me these feelings are mutual and his attempt at settling did not go well either. When you truly belong with someone you will know and nothing will keep you apart!

Good Luck spiritgirl!

I definately have preferences, I love big arms and a solid chest, nice butt an solid legs, I dont like to be heavier than my man but mainly I prefer men who are open and honest, who can make me feel safe and protected , I dont want a wosey man. And I definately dont want to have to be the man in the house, I would rather someone else be in control.
Wow I have heaps of preferences.

i think it means lesbian *****es

Confusion say;
Sex is only a problem when ya' ain't gettin' it.