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who
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Obviously it would be Manchester United
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For me, as long as they have got eyes, that would be a good start... I think it all depends on the character shining through the eyes that is important...
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ATM
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I saw another guy post this yesterday!
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Spread The Love!
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Don't cry too much, you might drown
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Spread The Love!
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Man! That brings a tear to the eye!
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so
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Why does it always rain on me?
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GIRAFFE MATING ROOM
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Giraffes? What the.... is this the beastiality section??
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Chit continued
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Beers are on you then k then dinner is on someone else lol Its ok, we can just do a runner after we are finished!! Did that in Edinburgh once... |
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Chit continued
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Beers are on you then
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One Day.
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Wonderful
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Men! Terrible! They are all the same!
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drunken behavior
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Definition of the saying....
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Yeah well, I have never seen a horse galloping up to me bearing gifts...
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Just a Question
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You know, that is a very good question.
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Partner History..
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Everybody starts afresh when they start dating somebody. We would like to believe this, but truth is, we are all a product of our past experience and cannot deny it, even in hoping to start with a blank slate. Even with the best of intentions. Inside, our cores are what they are. I feel it is best to be honest; not to delude yourself or others into thinking you are who you are not - or that you are capable of what you may not be, based on every past experience of your life. In denying self-awareness and personal accountability, you are only setting yourself and your partner up for pain and heartache later. Yes, people can change in some ways, but usually only if they are wanting that change for themselves, not another. AND, if there are no other "stumbling blocks" in the way, no matter what that might be. I agree to an extent with what you are saying, but this whole thing of dragging it out into the open by means of a conversation is probably a bit OTT in the beginning. To be honest, if you have got to start talking about sex in the very beginning, that usually means that there is limited communication going on. That also shows that you/he/she is after one thing and one thing only. So in theory there is no need to even ask the question, because you know the answer. I just see what I see and trust my own judgment and if I am wrong, well, I quite like being surprised sometimes. Well, not in all cases. Some folk are very sexually driven and sexual compatibility can be a very big part of the choice they make in a long term life partner. Maybe not so for most vanillas, but to some other groups, yes. I think talking about it is healthy and shows maturity. I'm not talking about sexual innuendo. I'm talking about basic compatibility. I feel communication should be open and thorough about every area of compatability, not just sexuality. I suppose you are right if you are talking about certain sexual behaviour.... and how compatable you are in that respect.. but I think you are deviating into something that isn't wholey what the guy (who started this thread) was going on about. Asking how many sexual partners you have had, well, from what I have seen and heard... well, it is just one of those daft conversations and most people lie anyway... mature? Hardley I think it is relevant. It is something I try to discover about my potential life partners as soon as I am able.... Deviant?  Perhaps. But quite the norm for some of us.
Now if you've ever killed someone...THAT is something I want to know! 
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Partner History..
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Everybody starts afresh when they start dating somebody. We would like to believe this, but truth is, we are all a product of our past experience and cannot deny it, even in hoping to start with a blank slate. Even with the best of intentions. Inside, our cores are what they are. I feel it is best to be honest; not to delude yourself or others into thinking you are who you are not - or that you are capable of what you may not be, based on every past experience of your life. In denying self-awareness and personal accountability, you are only setting yourself and your partner up for pain and heartache later. Yes, people can change in some ways, but usually only if they are wanting that change for themselves, not another. AND, if there are no other "stumbling blocks" in the way, no matter what that might be. I agree to an extent with what you are saying, but this whole thing of dragging it out into the open by means of a conversation is probably a bit OTT in the beginning. To be honest, if you have got to start talking about sex in the very beginning, that usually means that there is limited communication going on. That also shows that you/he/she is after one thing and one thing only. So in theory there is no need to even ask the question, because you know the answer. I just see what I see and trust my own judgment and if I am wrong, well, I quite like being surprised sometimes. Well, not in all cases. Some folk are very sexually driven and sexual compatibility can be a very big part of the choice they make in a long term life partner. Maybe not so for most vanillas, but to some other groups, yes. I think talking about it is healthy and shows maturity. I'm not talking about sexual innuendo. I'm talking about basic compatibility. I feel communication should be open and thorough about every area of compatability, not just sexuality. I suppose you are right if you are talking about certain sexual behaviour.... and how compatable you are in that respect.. but I think you are deviating into something that isn't wholey what the guy (who started this thread) was going on about. Asking how many sexual partners you have had, well, from what I have seen and heard... well, it is just one of those daft conversations and most people lie anyway... mature? Hardley |
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Partner History..
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I think asking about health history is one thing, but how many partners is irrelevant. Men seem to respond that this as an invasion of privacy while women here have said they want to know. Personally I just think women are nosy and like to put salt in the wound sometimes. Put salt in the wound? What do you mean by that? Women ask.."What was her name? How did you do this or that? Why did you choose her?" Then, they start to compare. A total waste of energy! I'm sorry but I still don't understand the relationship between your comment and putting salt in a wound. Putting salt into a wound is a deliberate act meant to increase the amount of pain being felt by an individual. Asking (at the appropriate time) someone about how many previous encounters they have had in the past shouldn't be painful, should it? Maybe it's just me or maybe it's a guy thing. I'm not sure (not enough coffee, maybe? )
I heard that women just like putting blokes on the spot with what they think are awkward questions... You got to love em for it though! |
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Partner History..
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Everybody starts afresh when they start dating somebody. We would like to believe this, but truth is, we are all a product of our past experience and cannot deny it, even in hoping to start with a blank slate. Even with the best of intentions. Inside, our cores are what they are. I feel it is best to be honest; not to delude yourself or others into thinking you are who you are not - or that you are capable of what you may not be, based on every past experience of your life. In denying self-awareness and personal accountability, you are only setting yourself and your partner up for pain and heartache later. Yes, people can change in some ways, but usually only if they are wanting that change for themselves, not another. AND, if there are no other "stumbling blocks" in the way, no matter what that might be. I agree to an extent with what you are saying, but this whole thing of dragging it out into the open by means of a conversation is probably a bit OTT in the beginning. To be honest, if you have got to start talking about sex in the very beginning, that usually means that there is limited communication going on. That also shows that you/he/she is after one thing and one thing only. So in theory there is no need to even ask the question, because you know the answer. I just see what I see and trust my own judgment and if I am wrong, well, I quite like being surprised sometimes. |
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Partner History..
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Thought the emphatic oh no was directed at me...guess not. Anywho, I never ask and when I have been asked I tell them politely that I don't know, which is the truth. No the comment wasn't directed at you. Thought your comment was had an element of humor in it |
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Partner History..
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Ooh nonononononnono nooooooooooooooooo! It is all about asking for the truth and being able to handle the truth..
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