if everyone is so happy with their own company then why r there so many people on these dating sites trying to find happiness????? u can find sex in yr own neighborhood without subjecting ourselves to perfect strangers for companionship or hang out buddies!!!!!

there r pros n cons to being single n being married but being a Christian n a human being, I like my own company but having a mate is more satisfying n rewarding than being alone n I guess everyone's definition of being happy or alone is different. in scripture god made woman for man. she was a gift from god n now all men can do is complain about her. to each his own, but for me I don't have to prove to myself that I can make it on my own in this ol'e world, so now I choose to want a mate to have n to hold, to do things with n while mates have to be away from each other for various reasons, there is the time u need or want to do what u want, n to be alone with yrself. me..... I prefer marriage! I don't want to shack up, n that old quote that most guys come up with about trying out the cow before they buy the milk, or u don't buy a horse till u try it out, r just cheap plays to sleep with someone who can't commit to a relationship. that little marriage certificate scares the hell outa some people. love is beautiful n marriage enhances that love. possibly some people r scared to commit to something solid because they've made bad decisions n been badly hurt. it's life. get over it or get on with it. we only have one life in this world. make the most of it n with a new yr ahead, just make better, n wiser choices.