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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
Edited by
Nykolas
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Wed 11/03/10 07:05 AM
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... -sigh- things have already taken their coarse.. I was more asking opinions on the subject to help me justify the actions of the two of us to see if maybe we went a little too fast... i was not asking if there was some bullcrap rule, i know people are human and anything can happen.. (you should see my arguements in the topic "define love") it was more of a way too feel somewhat at ease with myself so i didn't feel like it was "rushed" or "forced" forward in anyway...
situation first date: hanging out with some friends at dennys, she went home and i went home... both "unsatisfied" second 'date': hung out at my house, played some video games, made her dinner, made a bet that i could pass a challenge on the game, I won, got a kiss, small kiss turned into deep kissing, which lead to more... HAPPY! now you cann all just have a blast either tearing me down or building me up doesn't matter.. i was only asking for my justification. I'm sorry.. I shouldnt have snapped.. and im not going to delete all that which is typed because i had maybe 15 typos i had to back up n delete.. no jokes if there are any more in there -Nyko- P.S. FYI our third time hangin out is gunna be tomorrow at like 8 AM till about 6:30pm      
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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
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... no i was just asking input from other people on what maybe you would have done in the situation...
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Topic:
open two timer
Edited by
Nykolas
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Wed 11/03/10 05:56 AM
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-sigh- i couldn't do it.. making 1 girl happy and keeping her that way is enough in it self.. no way i could hold down 2, iven if they did know about eachother because when 1 wants to spend time together the other will call and it'll just make me angry..
i had a gf once that was by... date me and some chick at the same time.. then for some ungodly reason talked me into a love triangle because they were both bi... glad that only lasted a week before the other one backed out n left the two of us... interesting sex life though for that week i will admit.. it was usually....... nah nvm lol |
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I never had this problem person.. jsut had to deal with my face looking like a rail road map.. but i dont care... i say it gives me character.. if ur fat.. tell em its a great pillow
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Edited by
Nykolas
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Wed 11/03/10 01:18 AM
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this is effin ridiculous a onetime poster gets 3 pages and probably more to come and i can't even get a half of page 
I know the feeling...very few of my threads make it past a page...a few make it to 3, then Death comes to greet them.
i better stop this is "highjaking" 
... my first thread is at 2 almost 3 pages >.> |
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ummmmmm- pick something besides talking about an ex - any ex....just a thought meant in kindness & good luck no don't let the "outta my league" thing bite u in the ***, take 1 date at a time - if you feel like ur about to mess things up...kiss her umm.. kinda past that.. we both share a fondness of pool and videogames.. i have a natural urge to "gamble"... lol but yeah.. everything is going well so far.. i dont really talk about my ex's at all.. because in comparison to her.. she's amazing, so far everything i could have hoped for.. my ex's each only had one of those qualities, but this girl.. just amazing. 2 weeks is nothing - hardly a relationship -sigh- umm.. the TITLE is the POINT being, I don't want this one to end up like my last one meaning in the drain... it was horrible.. it was asking for advice to help make me a better person.. maybe you should read some of the posts before posting next time sweetest |
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Topic:
define love
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FearandLoathing.. all i have seen from you is annoyance.. granted in the begining it was fine.. but now your just sounding like a pompus jerk...
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Topic:
Towers - Nyko
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love the last two lines, very nice! 
thanks.. i got a question.. what does this poem mean to you? to me it means sometimes you have to lose at love to gain a better love and when starting something new you gotta take chances and let your guard down thank you firefly |
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Topic:
Towers - Nyko
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love the last two lines, very nice!
thanks.. i got a question.. what does this poem mean to you? for me...allowing ones heart be open and searchng for romeo and juliet. "romeo romeo where for art thou romeo, deny thy family and refuse thy name" lol |
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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
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Ok here's an interesting conondrum..
What about sex on the second "date"? once again if the feeling is strong enough, and it feels right, and you feel right with this person. 1 night stands not counted because i do want to persue a long lasting relationship with this person. |
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im sorry for this ocean but theres a E at the end of metaphore im pretty sure Oh we have us a spelling Nazi!! A REAL spelling Nazi would have gotten it right. Metaphor is correct. then i withdraw my statement.. |
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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
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Hummm lets see two consenting adults out on a date things are going so good that one decides to lay a kiss on the other...... should he or shouldn't he?????? Hell go for it the worse she could do is slap ya or pull away or say it's too soon................until you do you will never know.... No matter what everyone else says each person is going to be different and take the situation different. You just have to go with the moment if the connection is really there then the kiss will happen.... Just don't think just because the kiss happen you can go the next step....... some things do take a little more time..... 
AGREED!!! I even stated to her that "just because what happened happened we won't let it hinder our progression in this relationship" and she completely agreed with me. |
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Topic:
Towers - Nyko
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love the last two lines, very nice!
thanks.. i got a question.. what does this poem mean to you? |
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Topic:
define love
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Fairy tales are the founding system of belief in the unbelievable, and belief that you can do anything you set your mind to. If we all gave up like this, and only believed what was right infront of our eyes, then the world would be at a stand still and we wouldn't achieve anything. All research would stop, all society would cease. If we gave up in our dreams that you so say that we cannot see anything but logic, then there would be no reason to be. We are human by nature, and emotion, willpower, and belief is what drives us to achieve what most would see as unbelievable.
There is your logic behind love. -Nyko- |
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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
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I'd be aching to play tonsil hockey beneath the moonlight.But hey!that's just me. 
agreed... but yeah... well this matter has already been established in this relationship im in but i just wanted some input.. we did on the second "date" kickin it playing some video games lol |
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im sorry for this ocean but theres a E at the end of metaphore im pretty sure
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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
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If you think you are both ready for a first kiss on the first date, there is no one sitting behind you smacking you an the back of the head if you do....and if there is, maybe you shouldn't have brought along a chaperone. i can see me doing that to my kid.. but i'd only smack 'em if they dont lol |
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Topic:
Indescribible
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Well thank you... It's been a long time since i had osmeone so inspiring though.
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Topic:
D&R Begining rules?
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nice but it don't answer mah questions! lol
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Topic:
define love
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When you love, 'you' is lost. There is no one but the object of your love. Where people went wrong was being willing (and expecting) to give up themselves for the sake of love. That's not possible. When you are secure in who you are (regardless of the desire to continue to improve yourself as you mature - a constant process), you can more effectively convince another that you are sincere in loving. Society today does not trust the word because the English language is too restrictive - using the same word for multiple definitions. Read Erich Fromm: The Art of Loving It will help. 
thats only because people stoped believing in the true love and stopped fighting for the reality of it. What was the reality of it? How do you believe in an emotion? This is a counter-argument to hate, love. That is all love is, a placard to an argument brought on by hate. Without hate we wouldn't have love, and without love we wouldn't have hate. Love is a double-edged blade, on one hand it can bring about great things...but in most cases it just brings about more pain, discouragement, and tension. Just as quick as someone can say "I love him/her" someone can say "I love [insert negative comment]." This is why the fairy tale definition hasn't stood the test of time, because evolution has surpassed it. Maybe people stopped believing in it, or maybe they stopped fighting for it, but the reality of it all along was that it wouldn't last. Only reason people stopped is because if you look at all the new stuff we are feeding our childeren it's all garbage in this aspect. this is why people stop believing in their dreams. I may only be 21 but I still belive in the toothfairy and easter bunny.. just because they dont exist we cant believe in them? yes emotions such as love, hate, happy, and sad, can all be felt and seen yet we are not to belive that they exist... This is what your telling me, and you are here trying to rationalize the yin and yang of love/hate. true without one there is no other. but in order to love someone one must be open enough with themselves, as with to hate someone, they must be able to hate themselves. ex was in a phsych class n had to read that... not actually all that great in my eyes personally but to each is their own i say.. in the other aspect.. I dislike how you people can be so scientific it about it.. so what if we are made out of... 1.Oxygen (65%) 2.Carbon (18%) 3.Hydrogen (10%) 4.Nitrogen (3%) 5.Calcium (1.5%) 6.Phosphorus (1.0%) 7.Potassium (0.35%) 8.Sulfur (0.25%) 9.Sodium (0.15%) 10.Magnesium (0.05%) 11.Copper, Zinc, Selenium, Molybdenum, Fluorine, Chlorine, Iodine, Manganese, Cobalt, Iron (0.70%) 12.Lithium, Strontium, Aluminum, Silicon, Lead, Vanadium, Arsenic, Bromine (trace amounts) (Sorry ima geek) doesn't explain how all that got in us? along with human emotion and what makes everyone different.. everyone is different, and love can be seen in many different ways but with all due respect, no science could ever explain human emotion, it may explain why we do some things certain ways but never explain how human emotion such as love works. |
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