Communication with maturity is the key. Also, having a social life will lift your spirits tremendously. Don’t rely on 1 person in your life to fulfil all of your needs, don’t put all that pressure on 1 person (husband or not) it’s YOUR life, meet people, set goals for yourself. When you have become a whole person within yourself, you won’t need it all from your partner, enhance each other’s lives instead. Let your son see you happy, doing things and becoming active in your community with other mums. Don’t let cultural and language differences stop you from being how you would be in your own country. If you feel lonely make the effort to meet people, cos in the U.K. nobody will bother unless you really put yourself out there. Don’t leave out of boredom, the worlds an increasingly scary place, be happy you’re safe and have what you need. Time flies and you’re not missing anything out there, make the most of what you have, don’t make hasty decisions. Regret isn’t a path you want to walk down.

However, if you’re REALLY unhappy then ask your husband if he’s ok..how he feels about you etc. Perhaps relationship counselling would help, but treat him how you want to be treated, there’s always 2 sides to a story.

Let us not forget that anything said or done by humans will be full of faults, and should not be related back to the divine source of Islam. By the way... paedophilia is now Pandemic in the western world. Deal with what’s on your doorstep first.