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What happened to dating?
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OP, you have things somewhat bass ackward. If the "benefits" aren't any good, a relationship isn't worth having, or even pursuing. Women can get sex anytime we want. In fact I just got an offer to come drink wine in the tub with a guy I use to date. The problem is he isn't relationship material so I passed. I get the guy is looking for what benefits him. But women are looking for what benefits us. So I want to date and see if the guy is quality. I want smart, dependable, fun to be around, good morals. You don't know that about someone in a week. That's what dating is for. Haha what do you say to that Rock? Reminds of a fart in a hurricane don't it? 
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What happened to dating?
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So now it's competition as opposed to discussion.
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What happened to dating?
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Wow just wow
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What happened to dating?
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I think a lot of women my age like dating and aren't wanting to rush into the boredom of a relationship. Most of us have been pleasers in the relationship/marriage. We are ready to enjoy life. Do you honestly believe what you're saying? Do you really wanna buy the farm alone? I suppose that is your right if you so desire but the prevailing philosophy of people your age seems to indicate the opposite. Actially, I own a small farm and my name is the only one on the deed. I didn't set out to be alone but reality is most people get divorced. From what I've seen there is usually one person pulling the weight. A relationship wouldn't be bad after I get to know someone. But reality is most guys I date don't make it that far. *bought the farm* , *pushing up daisies *, *6 feet under* , * kick the bucket * .... all refers to a person dying .... so when I say you wanna buy a farm alone, I'm saying do you wanna die alone ..... But hey your choices are your choices. |
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What happened to dating?
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Oh you mean your first stage is hours on the phone , walls of text on the phone , and then date? Gotcha
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What happened to dating?
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If relationships are so great, we would all be in one; right? Turning into Suzie homemaker comes with the territory. Guys like to eat and live in a clean house. I have some ask about my cooking skills before they ever meet me. Sex is great but it's nice for a guy to just be charming without expectations. Like I said before. I wants some time before the boredom of cooking everyday, laundry, cleaning, and his needs start. That's what I thought you meant verbatim. Mommy this mommy that like crisis rock said who did they think was at the coal mine for 12 hours to pay the heating bill? It sure ain't mommy !!! |
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What happened to dating?
Edited by
Up2youandme
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Tue 07/17/18 12:20 PM
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I think a lot of guys assume that chemistry translates into all round compatibility so once that immediate connection/attraction is established, there is no need to dig any deeper to guage further suitability. They consider sex or a relationship to be the only logical next step Well in your opinion then what's the next logical step? And trust me it ain't a relationship.  IMHO
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What happened to dating?
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I think a lot of guys assume that chemistry translates into all round compatibility so once that immediate connection/attraction is established, there is no need to dig any deeper to guage further suitability. They consider sex or a relationship to be the only logical next step That's not true at all . Not even close. 4 or 5 pages does not constitute a book. Assuming you're intrigued by the opening pages you might find yourself going thru the first chapter. And as everyone knows chapter 2 comes next. In the dating world or my world to be exact , that's checking under the hood. |
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What happened to dating?
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I think a lot of women my age like dating and aren't wanting to rush into the boredom of a relationship. Most of us have been pleasers in the relationship/marriage. We are ready to enjoy life. Do you honestly believe what you're saying? Do you really wanna buy the farm alone? I suppose that is your right if you so desire but the prevailing philosophy of people your age seems to indicate the opposite. |
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Sexual timing
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In Vegas you have an hour
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What happened to dating?
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It seems lately guys want to go straight for a relationship. What's wrong with taking some time to find out compatiblity? Guys is the rush for a relationship because you want those benefits started? That's not it at all. Relationships are not a requirement to get the benefits these days. It's the other way around if you ask me. Women in my experience seems to want to put a ring on you without the benefit of a test drive.and frankly we or should I say I can't see myself getting into a relationship without crossing all the Ts and dotting all the Is. |
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Beats me
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Yeah its kinda not for general viewing
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What are you doing? - part 2
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Misbehaving
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Stu
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Uber hot
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Have you ever - part 24
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No
Have you ever been approached and told you're good looking by the same gender |
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Maybe it's time to lower your expectations
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Have you ever - part 24
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No I'm water challenged
Have you ever had a picnic on a bamboo raft? |
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Right around midnight
HRE |
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