Think it would be better if a male would talk to me. LOL

I will be!

So glad that I come here. Everyone is so nice and honest. I feel I can be myself here without getting judged.

How is everyone doing?

Nice to meet you Mirror Mirror :)

Yeah the creeps do come out alot when I do look. I mean its been 15 months now and I had one but he turned on me so he is history. Looking for the next manly fish to jump into my boat LOL!

Okay I am in a I will not find anyone mood. Its hard when you have kids too. Will I ever find anyone? I am looking.

I think you look just fine.

I know how you feel. I have two kids and no one to help me out either. My parents can but only two days during the week. Its hard to get out just yourself. It would be nice to start up a babysitting thing for us single moms. Take turns or something.

Seeya,
Erica :)

Thank you to all of you for letting me vent. Its nice to see each persons opinion on the matter. I am feeling better and moving on.

Glad to be able to talk somewhere where, you are not judged.

Seeya,
Erica:)

Okay first off I was married for 14 years to my childrens father. During those 14 years, my son and I dealt with the abuse. We left because we could not take anymore of it.

It was to the point where my son was thinking of hurting himself because of his father. So we left.

I just dont understand that because the guy I was seeing, was having problems with his ex wife about the support, that it had to be taking out on me. I am not a money hungry person. I have a job and work. No, right now I am struggling but, use the support I get for the kids to get them clothes, school supplies, etc. I do not go out and get my nails done, hair done, by myself things with the money. I am working on getting a better job and better place to live but it takes time for some of us to get there.

I may have done somethings to make the guy I was seeing upset but I said sorry and explained why.

He bashes me for getting the support and the way I live and that is okay?

Okay I was seeing this guy and everthing was going good. His exwife decided to start asking for my child support and taping into his bank account. Yesterday he went off on me and said I am a money hungry ***** because I get child support. He said that I should send my kids back to their father until I can get more stable! I left him because he was mentally, verbally, and physcially abusing my son and I and we could take no more.

Just because his ex is a biotch dosnt mean that all woman who get support are. I mean WTF!?

Is it just me or what?

Sorry had to vent.

Seeya,
Erica :)

Thank you for the welcome :) How is everyone doing?

Hi, my name is Erica. I am 36 and a single mom of two. I moved to Tucson AZ a year ago to get away from the ex and start a new life for me and my kids. It has not been easy this past year for us though. I do not know many people and I am looking to make some friends and looking for someone to have a new relationship with.

Hope to meet some new people here and start some friendships.

Seeya,
Erica :)