Most women our age are not looking for us. They want a young hardbodied guy that they read about in the romance novels. We are used material and learned that the emotional part of ourselves can be turned off and we can live our lives alone just fine. The days of putting myself out there to be dumped on are thru. With the help of heavy drinking, there is no need to concern ourselves with a relationship, only to be dumped on. Maybe it's because that's the way women are in this part of the country, but this once apon a time door mat is closed for business.