Only if you've never had good sex.

Ok here ya go - FL member. Why Navarre?

Police are warning all women who frequent clubs, parties and local pubs to be alert and stay cautious when offered a drink by any man. Many males use a date-drug on the market called 'Beer'.

The drug is found in liquid form and is available anywhere. It comes in bottles, cans, or from taps and in large kegs. Beer is used by female sexual predators at parties and bars to persuade their male victims to go home and sleep with them.

A man needs only to get a gal to consume a few units of Beer and then simply ask her home for no-strings-attached sex. Women are rendered helpless against this approach. After several Beers, women will often succumb to the desires to sleep with men to whom they would never normally be attracted. After drinking Beer, women often awaken with only hazy memories of exactly what happened to them the night before, often with just a vague feeling that 'something bad' occurred.

At other times these unfortunate women are swindled out of their life's savings, in a familiar scam known as 'a relationship' ... In extreme cases, the male may even be shrewd enough to entrap the unsuspecting female into a longer-term form of servitude and punishment referred to as 'marriage'. Women are much more susceptible to this scam after Beer is administered and sex is offered by the predatory males. Please forward this warning to every female you know.

If you fall victim to this 'Beer' scam and the men administering it, there are female support groups where you can discuss the details of your shocking encounter with similarly victimized women. For the support group nearest you, just look up 'Child Care' in the phone book.

I don't know that it's skin color per sae. Might be an issue with grammar perhaps?

I have a pic up and I don't get a huge number of responses from guys I feel are compatible with me, based on their profiles and pics. Whether its because I smoke or my profile scares the hell out of them I couldn't say. Based on the personality, appearance and status of people I am interested in - I'm going with it's because I smoke. That said - if I want to attract a larger response from my target market - I have to make it more appealing - quit smoking (again).

Why do you need him to make you feel good? Can you be happy just being alone for any length of time? Because if you don't like yourself enough to spend time with just yourself, you don't respect yourself. If you don't respect you - how will anyone else? A man that will use you for his own pleasure at your expense is not the man you want. You will always try to make him treat you well and it will never happen. He will always be the taker and you the giver because that is the precedence you set now by allowing this relationship.

When you stop thinking about him, you'll stop comparing others to him. You'll be open to a new personality and the fullfilment that relationship can bring you.