I hear a lot of women say "all the good guys are taken or gay" when what they really mean is "all the GOOD LOOKING guys that look like Brad Pitt are taken or gay".

I am the first to admit I am not the best looking guy. I get so many women contact me on dating websites asking to see my photo and once they do either no contact or a generic "sorry not my type" message.

So why is that ladies? If personality is more important why reject people by their photos alone? If you take the chance you may meet that good guy that is neither taken or gay.

Most singles groups I see are mainly slim or average build people. Are there any singles groups in Sydney for lerger people? Are there any others like me here? I am more attracted to real women, not stick thin models.

Hi all

I am new to this site.

I will admit up front that I was married and separated last year. I am now just waiting to file for divorce.

It was hard at first, but I am now ready to meet new people to spend those lonely nights with.

I admit I am not a Brad Pitt clone but I am a genuine and caring person.

I live in Western Sydney and hope to meet ladies in that area. I am a large guy and I don't judge people by looks. I prefer women with curves, so if you are a larger lady, the better!