Fact 1: Many Muslim men like to have sex as all men are the world because sex is a basic instinct just like hunger or thirst...

Fact 2: The need for sex can be controlled for a period of time just like people refrain from eating during the fast. However, the need for food or sex is needed after a certain period of time. for e.g. the break of fasting is done after 12-17 hours depending on your location ...

Fact 3: Millions of Muslims men go online to find a female partner.

Fact 4: The number of Muslim women who go online in searching for a partner for a serious relationship is far LESS than the number of Muslim single men. e.g. ratio one Muslim girl / 10 -50 Muslim men and probably 1000 men if we add the non-Muslim men who hit on her... so can you imagine the number of messages that she receives ? will she even look at your message? what are your chances ? .... you have to answer these questions ...

Question: what are the results of the high demand and short supply ?

Fact 1: wasting thousands of hours sitting behind a screen ( precious time) and probably being passive with your parents , siblings, and little movement and interaction with your community which is bad for your health and your mentality ...

Fact 2 : Some men start chatting with Non-Muslim girls which is another form of wasting time because there's only little chances for a Muslim guy to accept the mentality and way of life of a non Muslim girl such as eating pork , drinking alcohol, mingling with strange men , clubbing, dancing etc or finding a non Muslim girl who is ready to convert and quit Non-Islamic attitudes just to be with you and make a family P.S. (that is the case of those who didn't read OR understand the meaning of the Quranic verse: "Don't marry- have sex with non-Muslim girls until they convert to Islam"

Fact 3: Some men go to watch porn movies to ejaculate ... they also waste a lot of time surfing and looking which will make them eventually very picky later in their life and feel unsatisfied from the Muslim women/ wife ...


Fact 4: Psychic problems: Worry - stress - low self esteem - depression
which might affect the jobs of men and their production at work...


from a women attitude: Most Muslim women expect Muslim men to marry them when they reach 15 when they reach the age of puberty...

Question 2 : why is marriage becoming so difficult ?

Reasons: 1- poverty among Muslims all over the Muslim world due to bad government economic planning and conspiracies ...
Reason 2: Non Islamic traditions such as asking for an impressive marriage ceremony, fancy things, owning a house, huge amount of money for the wife in case of divorce ... but who is getting hurt from all these procedures and old fashion mentality ? the young generation ( both boys and girls ) ...

Another related issue to the topic is the nature of work which makes some Muslim women not interested in marriage for several years. In parallel to that, the increasing number of female workers is also taking out a significant amount of jobs from men leaving them unemployed and not ready to marry and support a family.

How to solve all these issues in a positive way without compromising our faith ?

I will continue writing about this topic later ... meanwhile feel free to put your input ..

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