Or maybe people need to learn how to read past a title before responding?? Hmmmmmm.....Just a thought :P

Sorry if you took it personal but that sounds like your issue not mine :) I was speaking generally........If you can put yourself into that general of a category then that's something you need to address.....If you bothered to notice I spoke of both sexes not just men in my generalizations.....

Fyi to all.....I'm not bothered by these types of people personally per say......I as an enlightened person find it sad and pathetic that so many men from the posts I've read on here feel this way and choose to display their obvious disrespect and contempt of the opposite sex on a venue meant to attract a partner not push one away.....:) You would think we were still stuck in the 1800's not 2013.....Lmao.....:)

I say if u want one go for it but since ur going to have it the rest of ur life make sure its something that has significant meaning for u so u don't later regret it. I have one on my back below my right shoulder that is the outline of a butterfly with the face of a tiger in it surrounded by roses all in color. Ive had it for nine years and still love it as it still has the same meaning for me it did the day i got it:)

All I have to say is please refer to my forum posting Deluded men in General Discussion :) That being said I have to say as a strong and independent female I find it sad that most men are intimidated by strong women enough to have to justify their sexist attitudes with degrading commentary about the opposite sex.....Please remember that God made women to be equal and complimentary partners to men and walk beside them not behind them.

Thank you :)

So I'm assuming you like them sanjeev? :)

Its singing song lyrics yourself to the music of your favorite songs sanjeev :)

I love karaoke!! I had a friend introduce me to it when i was 21 and been hooked ever since :) Sadly where I live I cant get anyone to go with me and I hate going alone......Guess Ill have to wait another 3 months till my oldest turns 21 and can go do karaoke with mom!! Hahahaha :)

Okay all......I love writing poetry so here are a few of my older ones written on the same night. Please let me know what you think. :)

Love Destroyed

I trusted you
I gave you my heart;
All you did was betray me
and tore it all apart.

I gave you all of my love;
Everything I had to give-
Now that you've left,
I just dont want to live.

Deceived and lied to,
I believed every word you said-
The fool I was played for;
Now I wish I were dead.

You use and abuse-
It is simply your way;
But I've been told Karma comes back around
and you will soon see that day.

One day you will regret this choice-
Maybe not soon; but someday justice will ring out its voice.


Love Deep and True

As deep as the deepest ocean
and truer than the truth ever could be;
My love for you knows no bounds
It is unconditional and always will remain.

You give me more happiness than i ever could believe,
You are my all and everything-
You fulfill my every need.

I've loved you for so long-
I know no other way;
My sun rises and sets on you-
You are my night and day.

Always know whatever may happen;
Wherever you may be-
I will stay by your side and love you forever;
That is a promise I will for eternity keep.

Hahaha.....thanks sanjeev but I'm not sad :) Im just a strong woman expressing her disgust at the sad line of thoughts coming from so many on this site....:) I am a very happy person so all good....but thanks :)

Well I must say after reading quite a few posts in different forums on here that I cant believe how many deluded, rude, arrogant, and self righteous men are on this site!! Wow!! Seems pretty sad to me. You know its not all about the battle of the sexes......its more about personality and the type of person you are. Men and women both I think are just looking for a honest, loving, and loyal partner they can share interests with and spend a lifetime of love with. Unfortunately due to a few bad circumstances many people typecast all of one gender into the same category unfairly. So here's my advice guys.....if shes not interested it doesn't mean shes stupid, vain or a whore....it simply means she wasn't the one for you and you either need to keep looking or fix some of those things scaring people away. And please don't take offense!! I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you but if the opposite sex keeps running away from you maybe you should take a hard look at why and fix it. For either sex I'd have to say arrogance, self righteousness, a false sense of superiority, vanity, lying, and unfaithfulness are all going to be big turn offs. So please understand that not all women (or men for that matter) are the same, quit playing the blame game, FIX YOURSELF, and keep looking till you find that person meant for you. Oh and as for the guys and girls on here just looking for a booty call talking trash.....good luck with that but kindly keep your opinions to yourselves.

Hi dave.....Welcome and I too am from Arizona :) Nice to meet you.

And you are obviously not too smart posting your low opinion of women here if ur hoping to date.......Catch a clue stupid. Your not winning any brownie points talking about women that way!! Like I said no wonder your single!!

Thanks for the welcome :)

Thanks Penny I will :)

And you are are sad and pathetic in thinking that its okay for men but not women.....hmmmm.......easy to see why your single

My name is Shellie and just wanted to say hi :) I am new here and hope to meet people who are not fake like so many other sites.

My ex is 11 yrs younger than me.....we met when he was 21 and i was 32 and we made it work for 9 years.......I am now 41 and he is 30 and we did not break up due to age.......so I say hell yes!! Age does not matter if there is love and a strong foundation