I think it is possible to have feelings and not be infatuated. For example i met a man at first sight i was attracted but it was his appearance. Does that help? I am not sure you are immature it is just the mother has old fashioned ideas.

The best answer i can give you is follow your heart noone else can feel for you so be honest and let him know if you think there is some thing there it might be real.




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