To mean I agree with the true meaning which is Responsibility,loyalty, something planned that is not avoided.

There is more to this than that as most I find do not understand the concep of:
something that takes up time or energy, especially an obligation

This building of a relationship does do just that and I find it can be exhausting for only one side of the relationship dealing with all the responsibilities or one just being loyal.

Loyalty:devotion or dedication, e.g. to a cause, person, or relationship

In a relationship allthis must be considered and even in my own personal life with the Lord I can see where I can be out of guidance at time in keeping this true.

So what would be the best thing in a relationship to keep this going?

I have been divorced twice last time nineteen years ago. Between first and second marriage nine years. I have basically been single and not in committed relationships. It takes two to make it work so I have devoted my life to the Lord so with these years I looked within and have grown into the woman I should be. I also never dated much because of the types I met were not doing well in life so I was more as a friend. Most of my relationships have been based upon a roommate situation. I never had children because of not having a committment and this is due to a lot of travel and enjoying myself in life period. I have had the same ups and downs as others, but mainly stay to myself. I watch others struggle with family, divorce, and so I always stayed around singles just for having fun from work and school. Most of my education in the past was self education. I have found interest again at the University. I deal with a lot of responsibility and always have with no outside help or very little.
Marriage was good for what it was and I still think how nice it would be to find someone mature who has the same ideals.

God is omnipresent so He stands more than in front of me He lives within. I make partial of my destiny in conversations within my soul and He directs my path.

God is always standing in front of Me as I do not know where I am going. My destiny is partially made by me and blessed by Him...In fact He is not only every where, but He is within my heart.