ok.. but can someone tell me where that quote come from???? (bestill my heart if you can)

lol.. its been me and her for so long now, she has seen that i dont actually "need" a man around, but i really liked your answer.. it bout made me cry.. coz deep down thats exactly what i want.. but becoz of lack of that very thing, i have evolved not to require it to survive..

the other night my daughter (6 years old), ask me why my bf wasnt coming around no more, i told her that we broke up.. and she ask me why did i want to date someone anyway.. she said "mom.. why cant it just be me and you, we are fun, we do stuff, do we really need someone else??? " and honestly i dont even know wat to say to her, i am sure i come up with an answer to pacify her enough for that night, but i want a good reason to give to her.. and i dont know how to explain it to a child.. anyone that can help and put it in words that a child can understand i would appreciate it..

Take my advice.. pull down your pants, and slide on the ice....

I dont care if a guy i date is a virgin or not, and i hope he dont care if i am or not.. (seeing how i got a kid and all..) but i do beleive in relationship virginity.... that means not sleeping with someone as soon as you start to date.. but keeping the union seperate until both ppl are ready and know its the right thing to do.. plus you get to know a person alot better that way.

nice profile.. i love that you have a sense of humor.. i am sorry bout your accident, but i love that you have moved past it and can now laugh when you need to.. i hope you find what you are lookin for on here

i have had ppl email on here to ask me why i didnt reply to there instant message.. and i didnt even know i was getting messaged

hi, i know i am purty knew at this, but i cant get the instant messenger to work for me.... is there a secret to it?? or am i doin something wrong?

coz i dont party, drink, or do drugs, my last 2 relationships have ended coz the guys have decided they wanted to stay drunk all the time, or get high on everything but there shoes.. but they did fool me for a while in thinking they didnt do either..
My standards are purty high to some ppl, but i think its just common sense..

for picking me up a klondike bar?? nothing.. if you hand deliver me a watermelon.. then we can talk.. lol.. (thats my weakness.. lol.. )

i havnt tried all there flavors, but what i have tried has been very good.. but not something i could eat daily.. shew its soo rich.. like a reward or a treat for me..
and i didnt try it until i think Febuary of this year.. so dont feel too bad..

i couldnt agree more.. i am raising my girl up better than i was raised, just by pure avoidance of what i saw and went thru growing up, i am sure she will think she had a crappy childhood.. (as most ppl do when they look back on it) but i will know it wasnt near as bad as mine.. and i figure if making her do chores, and eat all her dinner is the worst thing she remembers.. then i am doin ok

ok.. i tried the question what would you do for a klondike bar.. but i think the real question is what would you do for a pint of Ben and Jerrys...

oh i know.. was just trying to avoid it altogether, i am not out to coz confusion, really just trying to get things off my mind and seeing what others have to input on it..

I really hate to agree with you, coz i dont want to think its true, but you are right, Power is key.. with enough power/money.. you can make almost anything happen, and even turn bad into good.. and vice versa.. and im sorry to say but thats soo sad.. its hard enough to raise a kid up in todays world, but when push comes to shove.. its not who is the smartest, or who has a better heart.. its gonna be who has the power.. ugggh.. what a depressing thought..

I do understand that, i was asking becoz of ppls differences in lifestyles, and its just my curious mind about the human behavior i guess. I am not saying any one lifestyle is better or worse than any other, just wondering how we are all made up the same physically, how we differ so much mentally.. i possibly hang out with my 6 year old daughter too much, i am starting to ask questions like she does.. lol..

thank you.. that helped alot

yes.. i do feel you are right.. not sure there is a right or wrong answer to this one.. i guess i just wanted to know other ppls influences..

first and foremost, i am not on a pedestal, and i am not putting anyone down.. shew.. now that that is out of the way i can post whats on my mind.. what i am wanting to know is... where do we get our since of whats right and wrong.. and what we will allow and what we wont.. i know some comes from family, some comes from life.. but i have seen straight laced parents bring up a hellion of a child, and i have seen 2 hellions bring up a very straight laced child.. i mean, i know we usually rebell against our parents.. but no everyone does.. my ideas on life differ from my parents, and i am raising my daughter differently than i was raised. so what i want to know.. is where do we get these ideas that our way is the right way.. and how do we assess the difference.