No, the way you are is fine. It's nice to have a guy that's different for a change. My ex-fiance was different as well. He never used profanity, never was a drinker, and dressed like a little preppy black guy lol. I use to think it was weird that he didn't curse, but then again he was strong willed never to let it slip out his mouth. I'd curse for the both of us haha. Anyway, if a girl doesn't like you for who you are then screw her and move on.

thanks writer girl. Sometimes it takes me a while to move on, but I guess I will get to that point sooner or later. And they have a nerve to say we're complicated! hmph!
thanks

You're very right. I learned the hard way that if a guy is claiming that he is this and that all the time, he's just trying to believe himself by saying it so many times. I use to talk to some guys that always use to say he was a good guy... I'm thinking to myself, "Who are you trying to convince?" For the others that like bounce around the garden... They just don't know a good thing when they see it. Thanks so much lcjw

Thanks Knights that kinda made me feel better. I know how that feeling can be without the person close. I was really willing to go out there too. Thanks again.

I'm done. I give up. As soon as I think I've found the one they go and get silent. I meet someone on this site and everything seemed to be fine, yes, he is in a different state, but we were only a plane ride away. We would stay up weee hours of the night chatting getting to know one another, then came the phone calls. He really seemed into me and of course I into him. We talked about meeting up and actually starting something serious.... then all of a sudden after a month and a half... he vanishes. I text him about every two or three days, try to call him once every three days. So, I got the hint... he doesn't want to talk to me or be bothered. I even wrote him a message on here which he read and didn't reply to. Is it a fact that guys have some kind of PMS? Because I swear, those mood swings are a *****. I was nothing but caring and this is what I get? I get my heart (feelings) smashed like a watermelon that had a date with a hammer. So, I give up on this place. No one seems to be serious about what they want and stick to it. Such cowards to lead someone on and not have the decency to tell them you're no longer interested and why. So much for wearing my heart on my sleeve... next time I hope it hides lol.

i thought i did, but ummm

Plain and simple he doesn't know what he wants and I'm ready to move on :) but like you said he doesn't want to lose me, but with me he's can't eat his cake and have it too. Pshhh! Okay that's the low down... NEXT! haha better things in the future.

First off... you're children need you, so NO you should not leave them behind! ugh...

Second, you should just meet this person before you go out there and finding out that it was nothing like the online connection!

if she fell for that she must be out of her mind to think Will Smith is hot haha.

Anyway, you tell her to take you as you are or don't take you at all... lol up to you... unless you trying to settle then that's another story.

First question...

What did you tell her you looked like two years ago?

well at least you had something to eat

Sounds like you didn't close the bag! lol ewwwwww soggy!

well hmm let's see... what kind of music are you into?

you tricked me haha... hope your night gets better.

dang... had me excited!

I plan on WTFin him when he calls.

Not at all, before I can finish my sentence telling him i'm hanging out with an old chick friend...he went crazy getting loud... still there's no need for the rage!

lol that's why i gave you a hug... you make sense

Thanks, now I'll stop trying to figure it out... I wonder if it'll give me gray hair...

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