I am by no means a chick magnet, but you really just have to find somone who is into the same things as you. If you are really into nerdy things, you probably wont find your soul mate hanging out at a bar. If you're really into sports you probably wont find them in church. :]

As far as humor goes, I never worry about sports teams. I usually just say something playfully arrogant similar to "You cheer for the _____'s? Oh, i'm sorry i only cheer for good teams"


I'm currently 382/382 responsive giggles. It's all about the way you present yourself. If you present yourself like you are really trying to get yourself out there it might seem desperate. But if you treat a girl somewhat like she'd make a great friend, she'll be more adamant about opening up to you which is when you steal her away.

Im not a chick magnet but in my experience i have never been able to set up (nor do i really want to, i guess) a one night stand, sex on the first date sorta deal. Just be amiable and not too seemingly needy and add a dash of charming and you'll hit it off.