You guys are idiots...

Some things take time.. it doesn't come in an instant

Hello and welcome to mingle

From a Filipina to another sweet and sensitive Filipina.... thanks so much Angel for understanding. I do think our culture here has something to do with our own connection lol I was just bored last night and didn’t have patience to look for a mind stimulating topic that’s why I posted this I was not even thinking about love but just remembered the book I read before during my period of freedom from a failed marriage. I know love is never enough to sustain a long and lasting relationship I hope the luck guy will find you soon and appreciate you for the lovely person that you are

A lie is a lie.
Sounds like you are made for each other, the only
difference being the depth of the lie.

am looking for good and decent girls who are good at heart

it was the first time or the first message between you and him?

I never give my number or my email in the first message, only after a bunch of messages

There are scammers trying to pinpoint your location and clone your number to see where you are

The other possibility is he’s busy

You are still lucky.. at least you found out early the girl's real intention Real people (not just friends) don't ask any...

One day you'll meet someone who will not do that

You are still lucky.. at least you found out early the girl's real intention Real people (not just friends) don't ask any...

One day you'll meet someone who will not do that

thank you@Toodygirl5
I love the verse, just what i needed today!
But the verse is from 2Corinthians 9:7 Niv , guess just a typo!
Have a blessed Sunday!

What would life look like when there is no union between two different God fearing genders.

I just realized that when two believers comes together loving each other,hoping to be together with the fear of God they obtain favor from God.

How true is this? please respond...

Meh
I was a truck mechanic
I know lots of truckers that are completely faithful to one person.

Meh
I was a truck mechanic
I know lots of truckers that are completely faithful to one person.

Good to know.

The FIRST thing you should do is get off dating sites and participate in your own life. Get a hobby, find a craft or art project...something?

Next, you need to GROW UP.
You have a child that need its mother and father.
The moment you two decided to bring a new life into this world you became something more than two individuals.

No problem is completely one persons doing. It takes two to make a child and it takes two to make a loving relationship.
Perhaps you both need to work on your honest communication?

Set aside time where both of you can just sit and talk.
Communication is a two way activity. It is just as important to listen as it is to talk.

Consider the responsibility effect. When someone in a marriage faces overwhelming responsibility it wears on the soul. Consider his feelings of responsibility and praise, yes praise him for his efforts.

Ask him, with love, what he expects in life. Acknowledge what he says and remember what has become important to him. Once the honest communication returns you can address your boredom concerns.

From what you have written, It looks like he has closed down.
That you don't understand what he is going thru so he stops sharing it.

If you would do anything for the ones you love you should demonstrate it with actions. Shallow words only widen the rift.
Wishes and dreams are only possible if you take action to make them happen.

Make a list of the things you want to change.
Note the things that you can change yourself.
Note the things that you need his help to change.
Then make a list of the things that are good, that don't need to change.
Note the things that you do yourself.
Note the things that require his help.

Concentrate on the good things.
Say outloud - "That's a good thing" when they happen. Then smile.
Address the bad things as they happen.
Are they things that could have been avoided with an action earlier?
Are they things that are outside your personal control?
Learning which mistakes you make is not as important as learning how to avoid making them in the first place.
Never minimize your successes. Even the little ones.

Above all, try to remember that he is a human being that is unique. Just as you are unique. You will never look at the world thru his eyes, he will never look at the world thru your eyes.
The best you can do is hope for a mutual understanding.
You are you.
He is Him.
Together you can be unity or strangers.
Its really up to you, its YOUR life.

It's not a requirement that you answer each and every note you receive.
No response is a response.