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Topic:
Friends with Benefits
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Good morning, Looking for some input here. I just broke up with a man after knowing him for some time, but only dating him exclusively for a few weeks. He and I are compatible in so many ways, enjoy each others company, have the same warped sense of humor…well, I could go on, but you get the picture. We spend almost every waking moment together that we are not working, and some sleeping moments, as well. He was concerned that the “spark” wasn’t there…that he did not get that little “pitter-patter” in his chest when he sees me. We have continued to be, well, friends with benefits, and I am not sure I can do this anymore. We are both dating other people when we want to, but I have come to the conclusion that I want him and not another person. So I think I am hanging on to him in hopes that we will find that “spark.” He looks into my eyes a lot, and I can’t help but wonder how someone can look at you that way and there not be something. I think I am going about this the wrong way. Now, I have friends tell me that he is just using me…and I tell them that I am using him to, so what’s the difference? My Daddy tells me to back off (though he calls me most of the time, and run right over like a little puppy) Daddy says that I need to not make myself so available, and that maybe he will miss me. We do other things besides the “benefits” stuff. We eat out, cook together, go to the movies, shop, talk for hours…It’s not all about sex. I guess my question is can that spark develop? He says if it does, that I will be the first to know. Bottom line, I want this man! Is he just not into me? ~Melissa A woman whos willing to have sex but doesnt badger him about "where our relationship is going" is a guys dream come true secondly when a waman ends up doing it with a guy she had previously considered "just friends" and she says "it just happened" thats BS the guy planned it for months, he had that whole situation where "it just happened" planned down to every sentence he would say prior to the act Ladies: When it "just happens" its cause he damn near sat in a war-room with maps on the wall and little figures on a big table moving em aound until he was sure he had a plan, detailed down to every syllable and bit of body language, all to seduce u, believe me im a guy |
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Favorite thing from the 90s?
Edited by
lizardking19
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Tue 05/20/08 10:24 AM
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I was a little kid in the 90s so id have 2 say that my favorite thing then was the original power-rangers tv show, its the gen-y equivalent of the adam west batman series
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Edited by
lizardking19
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Tue 05/20/08 07:13 AM
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Its a phenomena that happes alot to people...asort of paralyzation along with hallucinations upon partly awakening but not fully back into your body (our core escapes us temorarily in sleep to recharge-we are hooked to our body by an invisible umbilical cord). This cord sometimes snaps back SUDDENLY (ever JERK awake?) Well...in night terrors, you have not completley re-entered your body...you or outside the realm. So, you cannot move...you are paralyzed (this paralyzation is necessary for recharging of the soul). Hope this helps 
Im familiar with that phenomenon but this was different, the other night terrors ive had never had "things" in it and i was never that AWARE of a "dream" this realistically before |
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I wasnt abducted just studied (I think)
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Ok so a few nights ago I had this really vivid dream (usually i dont remember my dreams) that there were these grey faceless things staring at me and talking in some incomprehensible language, I tried to "wake up" and couldnt! When I actually seemed to "wake up" I had an aweful headache!
I dont think they actually touched me or anything but still it freaks me out has anyone else had similar expieriences? |
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Topic:
Fear?
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NEW YORKS' ALRIGHT IF YOU LIKE SAXAPHONES!
oh wait u werent talking about THAT fear, whoops |
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Mindless self indulgence
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 no msi fans wow
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Topic:
Mindless self indulgence
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Any MSI fans out there? theyre awesome, i just picked up a copy of their newest album: "If" Its so cool
Little Jimmy Urine is one of my idols
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STP rocks and velvet revolver just broke up cause weilands a meany, replacing axel with weiland makes about as much sense as replacing bush with mcaine
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Topic:
sponge bob
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I LOVE that cartoon
IM READY! IM READY! IM READY! IM READY! IM READY! |
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Read a book called dionetics by L Ron Hubbard to find out about scientology
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Topic:
Starting to wish
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I wish i had shallow relationships, theyd be better than the ubiquitous rejection i get ffrom females in all other types of "relationship" i say it in quotation marks cause all my "relationships" are as follow: I like her, she doesnt like me except as a 2nd string friend
Im searching for real nymphomaniacs the way some men search for bigfoot or nessie or other mythological creatures
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 Anton Levey was a Scientologist
The "Satanic" group he started is a joke
According to the Church of Scientology files he is considered an Operating Thetan
WOW...I am feeling so ignorant today...but learning so much....Please give me a brief discription of Scientoloty...the only thing I know about it is that it is the "religion" that Tom Cruise is. AND I am still curious to know the differance between a "Satanist" and an "Athiest" if neither believe in God or Devil. An atheist believes in neither a satanist beliefs in the christian devil ( and there r really very few of the in reality) |
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Edited by
lizardking19
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Fri 05/16/08 11:13 AM
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the pentagram is an upsidedown pentacle, which is an earth sign in wicca, some "black" (I say that in quotes cause im a chaote and think such terms r limiting) magick uses the pentagram much like an upsidedown cross is used in real satanism, but te reason the pentagram is associated with satanism is because during the middleages christians did not distinguish between witches (bad and good) whose beliefs do not coincide with christianity and satanists whose beliefs do (of which there were precious few prior 2 lavey and crowley) so the pentagram (and the pentacle used interchangeably) became the christian symbol for "Evil"
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Topic:
moth spiral
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Lil subtle 4 U, Liz! yes that was part of the approach to this, to NOT just kick down the door and rush in with all guns blazing as i am metaphorically wont to do |
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to be everywhere on this site. My question is why? Some are just knockouts, well more than SOME! Why would someone Not want to be with them? Why are they looking online for a mate? Or should I ask everyone "Why are you here?" shhh ul drive them away! |
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Topic:
The Tortured Law on Torture
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Are you a dem Dragoness or just hate bush? so the fact that someone points out a problem in the government (an inhumane torture policy no less) automatically polarizes them as a dem or bush hater? The issue of torture should not divided along party line but like everything else it is 
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Topic:
The Tortured Law on Torture
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American exceptionalism (the idea that our government doesnt have to follow standards of humanity like the geneva convention because it helped create them) is a terrible thing
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Topic:
moth spiral
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A brown moth
Dives in for a landing On a creamy white rose-petal With the sun still blazing in a sky He forgot, moths are only allowed to come out at night "Whats night?" To a moth night and day are relative He only know that during the "day" He wants to fly high into the great lightbulb in the clouds Me, Im just a human not an insect But to that imaginary moth Who I just wrote about I'm a god (chuckling because the only way a writer can get "recognized" is with multiple spit-shined confessions of failure) Not that I'm any better than a moth If a moth trys to fly into the sun It sends his perception of reality Spiralling out of his control I too might one day Scrape the paint off of a wall And see a bald doctor taking notes Behind a pane of glass As I pinch the Acrylic snowflake out of my fingernail He'll dissapear But from then on The inside of my head Will be bent Like the spoons of a psychic "What now captain Ahab?" I circumsised the top off an iceberg with a hacksaw so when my ship smashed into into it I too could mourn for the frozen and crushed who never saw it coming |
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Topic:
Tear Jerkers
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I like sad songs more than happy songs
hmm adams song by blink182 is a song that seems (in my case) almost prophetic, its like i could totally see myself as that character adam in about 10 years 
Adam's Song I never thought I'd die alone I laughed the loudest who'd have known I traced the cord back to the wall No wonder it was never plugged in at all I took my time, I hurried up The choice was mine, I didn't think enough I'm too depressed, to go on You'll be sorry when I'm gone I never conquered, rarely came 16 just held such better days Days when I still felt alive We couldn't wait to get outside The world was wide, too late to try The tour was over we'd survived I couldn't wait till I got home To pass the time in my room alone I never thought I'd die alone Another six months I'll be unknown Give all my things to all my friends You'll never step foot in my room again You'll close it off, board it up Remember the time that I spilled the cup Of apple juice in the hall Please tell mom this is not her fault I never conquered, rarely came 16 just held such better days Days when I still felt alive We couldn't wait to get outside The world was wide, too late to try The tour was over but we'd survived I couldn't wait till I got home To pass the time in my room alone I never conquered, rarely came Tomorrow holds such better days Days when I could still feel alive When I can't wait to get outside The world is wide, the time goes by The tour is over I survived And I can't wait till I get home To pass the time in my room alone Also leonard cohens' song Im your man Hes the godfather of gloom, its the lonleyiest sounding song ever Im your man If you want a lover I'll do anything you ask me to And if you want another kind of love I'll wear a mask for you If you want a partner Take my hand Or if you want to strike me down in anger Here I stand I'm your man If you want a boxer I will step into the ring for you And if you want a doctor I'll examine every inch of you If you want a driver Climb inside Or if you want to take me for a ride You know you can I'm your man Ah, the moon's too bright The chain's too tight The beast won't go to sleep I've been running through these promises to you That I made and I could not keep Ah but a man never got a woman back Not by begging on his knees Or I'd crawl to you baby And I'd fall at your feet And I'd howl at your beauty Like a dog in heat And I'd claw at your heart And I'd tear at your sheet I'd say please, please I'm your man And if you've got to sleep A moment on the road I will steer for you And if you want to work the street alone I'll disappear for you If you want a father for your child Or only want to walk with me a while Across the sand I'm your man If you want a lover I'll do anything you ask me to And if you want another kind of love I'll wear a mask for you |
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