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Input would be nice ;)
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very true to everyone's comments.
 thank yall so much. so i guess it's time to get off my niaeve a$$, set up with an attorney and get this train rollin. gotta wait till after i come back in though LOL
Thanks All 
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walton and johnson
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Input would be nice ;)
Edited by
Alloguvnah
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Wed 05/19/10 05:12 AM
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Well first of all I could never give advice on this one with only YOUR side of the story that would be a little crazy Another thing that hit me as I read.... You say you are not an excessive drinker what exactly does that mean to you!....you also mentioned a DWI...was that not excessive drinking...,you threw the word excessive out there instead of just saying I don't drink for a reason again I'd have to hear her side of the story as well as yours good luck! 
i can understand that. respectable. but i can assure you that i had done nothing to support her claims. and the dwi was part of a dumb move on my part which was before we had even hooked up. since that day i do rarely drink. when i do i only have about 2 or 3 beers which occurs maybe twice a month at best. that's why i say not excessive. if you wanna know what spurred this outlash, i'll tell yall. i took her to dinner last night as it was a promise i made to her when a particular restaraunt opened up about 6-8 months ago. i figured i should make good on that promise even though we were on rocky terms. somehow we ended up on the conversation of while we were still dating. she said she dosent know why she stayed. i then asked her why i heard from everyone why she only referred to me as her bank while we were dating. she asked me who told me that and naturally out of mutual respect for the said informants i declined to reveal their (plural, but each on their own accord) identity (and no i don't have anyone spying, they just tell me things they think i should know). she got mad, stormed out the restaraunt, then hours later that's what she started telling me. hell, even her family and friends support how i have been with my daughter. i must be doing something right. right? |
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Helo!
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Welcome
well it looks like ya just did join the forums otherwise just look around and if you find one you want to say something in, just click the reply button. 
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Input would be nice ;)
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I see people checkin out the thread, but no new posts. Do you have anything to share? Experiences, aftermaths, advice, etc.? Dont be shy LOL
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39 y/o bi sexual female
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i'm not a female, but i may know some that may be interested. what are you looking for in said woman?
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Input would be nice ;)
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thank you very much for your input. i guess its things i knew already, but its nice to hear that i have the right idea.
for the bad mouthing thing i couldnt do that. it's just not me to talk bad about anybody. sorry to everyone for such a heavy post. its usually not my style but i needed some opinions
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Input would be nice ;)
Edited by
Alloguvnah
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Tue 05/18/10 11:35 PM
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if she wants to be like that and take you to court, then a sure way to make you look bad is to say you aren't supporting the child. If she wants the money to go into a savings account, then she can do that on her own. She sounds like an unhappy woman (for whatever reason) and lashing out at you. The only person that will be hurt in this is your daughter. So all actions you take, do it for your daughter. Don't stop sending checks. Let the mother do whatever with it, but at least you will have proof that you are paying. Get bank orders or something to show the money is being withdrawn even if she doesn't cash it. When you go to court, have the money sent through the child support system to be safe. yeah i definitly want to set that up. i need to figure something out. as for her lashing out i don't know what her deal is. i've always tried to treat her with respect and love, which i think the biggest problem was me trying to hard to make things work between us but i was always warned by her family and friends that she is the kind to lash out irrationally. stupid me didnt listen LOL but I am very, very concerned about how this will affect my daughter and our relationship. i'm confident that my daughter will be abled to figure out the truth of things when she gets older, but i'm still very concerned none the less. |
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Input would be nice ;)
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Well I was looking at the other posts to find something similar to my situation, but was dissatisfied with what i had found so I decided to post one of my own. I figure some of ya'll might have similar experiences that you can share and how things worked out for you.
Here's the deal. I am separated and am on my way to divorce with one child between us. she is now 1 year old. Recently my little girl's mother starts telling me that she wants me to stop giving her the checks I have been writing to her for my daughter's monthly support. She says to instead open up a savings account. In a nutshell that will make it look as if I will be neglecting my obligations and being greedy by keeping my money. That's the way I see it anyway and I thoroughly believe the courts will see it the same way. Another peice of the puzzle is she has been saying that I am a worthless father and a peice of s***. She says that she will try to take full custody, prove me as an unfit parent, and doesn't want me in my daughter's life. It's hard for me to understand this line of thinking because I have always been there for my daughter physically and financially. I always pay support, buy what she needs, pick her up whenever I can to spend time, and whatever else I can do for her. I don't do drugs, I'm not an excessive drinker, and I'm not in trouble with the law in any way. About the only marks I have against me is a DWI from almost three years ago and much less than $10,000 in debt. How am I unfit? |
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What is it with older women?
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huh, mmmaaaaaaybe thats my probelm. every female has been younger than me. maybe i should start lookin for older women LOL
 
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Are you a thread killer?
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united we stand, divided we fall.....damn *fat kid sad face* i dropped my ice cream cone
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Unicorn Beast Powers.
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such a nut LOL i like you, you're funny
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Ireland
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ab-so-freakin-loutly
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Ireland
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I was thinking of looking for some distant relatives myself. Can you drive on the wrong side of the rode? Come with. 
LOL i can drive on the wrong side, the correct side, or straight down the middle cuz im the guvnah and i can do that 
yes, lets go 
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Ireland
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I am planning on taking a trip to Ireland spring of 2011. It will be my first time travelling out of the country. Any recomendations on what type of places to stay? How to travel when over there (car, tour bus, etc)? Any must see places (besides the well known places)? Anything else. Thank you in advance! 
damn i'm jealous. LOL i always wanted to try and find some distant relatives that didnt come over to the states |
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gettn low with mother tucker LOL
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Stigma
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there's a term thrown around down here for people in my occupation. offshore trash. sooo, many stigmas come with an occupation on the water requiring periods away from the home. on bothe sides really, though. for the people at home, and for the one on the water. its frustrating really. oh well....i'm still paid HAHA Shshshs that is my idea man know any single guys my age range lmao shshsh that would work out perfect while they were working you did not have to worry about them that is if they are off shore... as far as running around and hell they would be glad to see ya when they are home......... Perfect set up and ya both get your time away from each other as well.....
LOL true dat!
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bills
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ludacris speed, GO!
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damn, too slow again
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